You know what? Your husband should move you and your kids far away from your Mother-in-law. His responsibility is to his wife and his children! I hope that you both can work this out! My husband divorced me, and my kids are very hurt. I know every situation is different, every problem is different. GOD bless you, no matter what you do. I believe that if you give your kids all your Love....then they will be alright.

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heathercliff

Don't leave him over his mother if thats all you have issues with please don't your kids will suffer a lot. Imagine how much worse your mother in law will get with all control if you divorsed. If you love each other then don't please think of the kids . I can tell you from experience and a very bad ex;perience;. Believe me it takes time be patient your husband will realize and pick you and the kids. when I say time it can be a few years. you will thank me later on. Allways kill with kindness bite your tonge and things will change

Coming from a child of divorced parents since I was 2 (I'm 22 now). All I ask is don't bash family members in front of the children, don't put them in the middle over anything, don't make them messengers, and don't make this be a battle (don't make it ugly if at all possible). These things are all issues that I faced with my parents that had affects on me (long term and short term). I'm not really sure on how to explain it to the children of that age so I won't go into that. I don't know your specific situation, but don't let his mother push you two apart. However, if there is more and it's not good for the children, something needs to be done.

I tend to view peoples behaviors based on their set priorities. Unfortunitely, sometimes even our spouses' priorities are not inline with our own. It does not appear from your response that the marriage is in complete ruins. I know it is sometimes difficult and tiredsome to discuss the problems with your spouse, but communication is the key to success. Seeking a third person, such as a counselor can assist in mediating this process and help both of you find better means of sorting out your differences and finding appropriate resolutions. I hope you take this in consideration and works out for the best.

Hey im 19 and my parents have been divorced since i was 6, i have a little brother who was 3 at the time.

And i can tell you looking back that staying together isn't the answere. Also its important that you don't think of your kid as stuck in the middle, he should be able to talk to you two about it. Preferrably seperate from each other.

Also and i know this is hard from looking at my parents, but the best thing you can do is (and this goes equally for your husband) is simpy to accept the situation, accept that you have kids together and that you will be seeing each other regularly for at least another 15 years or so.

When you divorce it is important that there is no one winner of the divorce. Not one party being punished more then the other for breaking up. I know this because my dad got punished for sleeping with the neighbour and it took me a very long time to forgive my mom for doing so.

Seeing as your kid has authism (and from watching my steph brother who also has this condition) i know he or she will need extra care. So you will have to make tough dicisions along the way. Its important that your kids know that both you and their dad agree on the dicision being made.

But above all i can tell you that life is long, and my parents are both doing great with their new partner. Even tho there where some very hard times along the way.

What happens? Your current husband should proceed you and the children far away from the Mother-in-law. Their duty is always to his / her spouse and his children! I hope that both of you could work this specific away! My husband divorced us, as well as my kids have become injure. I realize every single situation is unique, each and every dilemma is various. GOD thank you, it doesn't matter what one does. I believe if you give young kids all your Enjoy....chances are they will probably be ok.

The best thing for you to do from being a child of parents that this has happend to, dont ever fight infront of the children, they will be scared for life. I know i was and especially try and make it! Dont say we fight alot. Go o marriage counseling, do everything you can possible you van to make it work for your sake and your childs. Also it really depends on how long youve been with him and the connection you have. You need to speak with him about working it out, you obviously married the man for a reason and you just need to find that reaso again. Again the affect on the kids are great. Marriage counselikg is also a great tool and if by th end of the counseling and conclusions adfter a year long time, you both and the counselor should make the decision. That is the best thing to do