Hi I have been trying to cope with recently learning that will unable to have children. What makes it harder is that I have a twin sister who has four kids, never had any issues with her fertility. We are identical and doctors have been unable to explain the difference. I found out my infertility issues by surprise, my husband and I went in to get options because my husband has a genetic disorder that make him unable to have kids. got quite the surprise when after my initial testing found that my ovaries are failing-they call it premature ovarian failure. We attempted IUI/IVF treatments without success, then attempted donor egg as well with my sister but that fell through. I guess I am having a hard time accepting that fact that will never have any children. My sister and I always pictures us having kids together. whenever I found out that a family member is expecting I breakdown into a heavy mess and fall into a rut. To make matters worse my other sister who has only been married for 3 months called to tell me that she is expecting, I felt happiness but anger and sadness all over again. I guess my question is how do you cope with this? will this feeling of anger/sadness/resentment ever go away. I am sick of people asking me do I have any children and that I have time, not really sure who to answer these questions.