Actually I would like to know also.... I read the infidelity board when I feel tempted bc it reminds me how bad my actions would hurt my h and k. I don't ever post bc I know there is a lot of pain there and I am the type of person that caused it. Am I a "troll"?

The definition of a internet troll.

http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Internet_troll

Here is the condensed definition

"In Internet slang, a troll (/trol/, /trl/) is a person who sows discord on the Internet by starting arguments or upsetting people,[1] by posting inflammatory,[2] extraneous, or off-topic messages in an online community (such as a forum, chat room, or blog), either accidentally[3][4] or with the deliberate intent of provoking readers into an emotional response[5] or of otherwise disrupting normal on-topic discussion.[6]
This sense of the word troll and its associated verb trolling are associated with Internet discourse, but have been used more widely. Media attention in recent years has equated trolling with online harassment. For example, mass media has used troll to describe "a person who defaces Internet tribute sites with the aim of causing grief to families.""

Source Wikipedia.

Lol, Roxi, absolutely not! I didn't think you were a troll and neither did my H, but it wouldn't have mattered. Even if someone came on there just to stir up trouble a legit answer could be read by someone else who is just lurking and it may help them. Glad you are here and I agree you haven't cheated yet but we want to help you keep it that way. The temptation can be overwhelmingly powerful and we will do our best to support you to make good decisions. I certainly respect how hard it must be to have your H away for so long. (((hugs)))

The person who posted the diatribe about all the weird things his "friend" does with married women and then proceeded to ask us all a series of questions so that he can write his dissertation on infidelity is a troll.

Not you, Roxy or GM.

A troll can also be someone who makes numerous profiles & usernames and attempts to stir up drama with them. Their drama is always fabricated and usually their stories are full of situations that are more and more tragic. We get them here occasionally but they're usually easy to spot

Man I kindof wish I was a troll then and this pain wasn't real.. Why the hell would anyone really want to stir stuff up with people they don't know.. I guess I am naive I have never been on a website like this before... Everyone is very helpful and I appreciate it..

They really are... I would recommend it to anyone.

This isi a great group. Very little to no troll activity on our group. The mother group I post on a regular basis, the Healthy Sex support group is visited by trolls on a regular basis though.