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I have shared in another thread that I have two weeks of no contact with my AP.
I've also shared that my withdrawal symptoms include headaches and slight nausea.
I have some questions for members whom are more experience on the subject of how the withdrawals from NC has gotten better over time.
1) What were your actual withdrawal symptoms of NC?
2) When and how did your withdrawals get better?
Thank you everyone for your support.
I've also shared that my withdrawal symptoms include headaches and slight nausea.
I have some questions for members whom are more experience on the subject of how the withdrawals from NC has gotten better over time.
1) What were your actual withdrawal symptoms of NC?
2) When and how did your withdrawals get better?
Thank you everyone for your support.
CloverMoon
Everytime I have a trigger moment I have to talk myself down from the ledge once again. Spent the last 3 days at our cabin in the mountains. On our way home while driving thru our hometown I thought I saw “him”. Obsessed all the way home with that freaking song in my head from Air Supply…here I am playing with those feelings again & just when I thought time had set me free, those thoughts of you keep taunting me…... Got home, went on fb and unblocked him, his suspected love interest & his brother to go snooping & see if I could get any updated info. His one response to OOW was, “really, love is all you need.” When he broke up with me he said “I guess sometimes love just ain’t enough”. WTF is the matter with me? I know it’s his rejection of me that haunts me so. And you know what just dawned on me? It’s facebook for christs sake. On fb you can be whoever you want, bullshit whoever you want. You see, I know the real him, the one that’s wimpy, whinny & a know it all. So now my dilemma is I have to wait 48 hours to reblock him & his stupid brother & his fantasy love interest. I preach to everyone else NC = no new hurts. When will I ever learn?
atmylowest
Hi, wow...i can totally relate to everything i am reading here. I found myself doing pathetic things like googling and seaching for things on the internet....why??? i have no idea. The only thing I can think is that it is obsessive thoughts and that i am just literally like an addict without a drug. I feel like I am jumping out of my skin most days. I went from being a happy, carefree person to my world feels like it is just caving in sometimes and i feel i must hide it from everyone. a horrible feeling. I wish to GOD i never responded to his email to "see how I was". let me give you all advice. Stick to the NC thing...even though I find myself struggling with this.
deleted_user
" let me give you all advice. Stick to the NC thing..." Amen!
deleted_user
Hey Folks I just like to report that the withdrawals symptoms are getting less severe with each passing day.
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