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More good news, dear family. he hasn't E-mailed me. Heading toward a 90% desire for it to end!

I am late to this party! Yeah I all of a sudden got super busy...and although I am glad, I guess, but I miss you guys! Sup? LOL. DO NOT feel bad about anything you have done! Honey if you feel you can save/rebuild/love your H/M then DO THAT! I am in no position to advise, because I know so much that I need to find my way back to my M/H, and that I need to leave OM (I would need to leave him if i was single...in fact I probably would have never been with him at all if I met him when single) ...yet I can't walk away..

redlegs, you bring such an important point. We are all doing our OP's a favor by not contacting them and letting them get on with their lives.

iris, if you can't walk away, can you choose to not make contact just for today?

Hi Fiber...well not for today actually because I just got home from him :/ ..but yeah I do NC for days...I NEVER reach out to him but I can't NOT respond when he reaches out to me. But for me NC means REALLY NC forever...and I have not been able to do that.. He's a musician and going to the UK for a while to record and tour and I don't recon I will be a part of all that, so just biding my time until then. I can change my number but just haven't had the heart. Plus I really love him. A lot. Sorry to hijack!

I hear you, iris, so I will ask you the same as I asked Tantric: if this is not for you that's up to you. Can we limit these threads to positive check-ins? Just to keep it encouraging, a chance to say "Pat me on the back for not using today", kind of like AA.

Fiber- YES my friend. Absolutely. Sorry to be off track. Thanks for keeping us in check. Respect. >>"Sup?"- LOL

SUP! :D

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