For the people who come here just to shame dirty cheaters, here ya go...

I finally lost. My husband moved all my stuff out to my apartment. (We were divorcing but were still going to see each other) I found out he had been using an old phone of mine to look at my fb messenger and he saw a conversation between a friend and I that made him think I have a relationship with a coworker of mine. In reality I was responding because I had found out he had been dishonest with me( the coworker) and I was pretty hurt. and the things he said after I confronted him hurt me as well because I had come to see him as a friend. He has a girlfriend, almost wife and he told me he kept her a secret because he was thinking of replacing her with me. See, I have always been honest with him-it being my new policy whilst I am trying to change myself. And his lies hurt me. Of course I wasnt thinking of dating him or anyone now but with my husband and I divorcing and not knowing if we'd ever be anything more, maybe in the very very very distant future. he's 30 years older than me anyway so at this point i just enjoyed his advice. But not my usual type. But anyways, my husband was sure something was going on with somebody so he moved my stuff. I had no idea til it was already done. I wanted more than anything to scream out and tell him I wasn't seeing anyone; that I hoped more than anything to get back with him one day. And I thought I was making it clear... I had been staying with him even though I had a place already...always trying to let him know I saw him in my future. Always trying to ask if he saw me in his....Well now he says I won't see him at all ever and my heart is breaking. Yes, before someone says it, I know this is my fault and I brought it on myself....But the worst part is that I'm literally not doing anything. I was getting into therapy full time to work on issues...going to school and working full time and over to save and get rid of some of this debt. It didn't work though...