Cheaters Anonymous Community Group
This is a support group for cheating spouses looking for understanding and strength. Betrayed spouses are welcome to post ONLY if they can do so in a supportive manner (no bashing...these posts will be deleted), and please do not comment on 'Cheaters Only' posts.
Y ME LORD? I SEEM TO ASK MYSELF MORE AND MORE THESE DAYS, MY SOULMATE :
SCOTT WHO WAS MY BEST GUY FRIEND AND LOVER FOR 9 YEARS- JUST BETRAYED ME FOUND OUT HE (WAS/IS / HAS ALWAYS BEEN MARRIED!) , AND HE PROPOSED TO ME AND WANTED ME TO MOVE TO FLORIDA TO BE WITH HIM.... AND I WAS ACTUALLY GOING TO DO IT! HOW COULD I HAVE BEEN SO BLIND? WHY WAS I SO STUPID? WHEN WILL I EVER HAVE SOMEONE LOVE ME , WHO I CAN REALLY HAVE...... I'VE BEEN ALONE FOREVER AND WILL CONTINUE TO BE THIS WAY- I DON'T THINK I CAN EVER TRUST- I WILL ALWAYS BE LOOKING FOR THE BOTTOM TO DROP OUT OR SOMETHING TO MESS THINGS UP, AND I FEEL SO BAD FOR HIS WIFE- WHAT HE MUST HAVE PUT HER THROUGH WHEN HE WAS WITH ME- I HONESTLY NEVER WOULDVE EVEN TALKED TO HIM OVER THE PHONE IF I HAD KNOWN HE WAS MARRIED.......... I'M CRYING, I'M SAD , I'M ANGRY, I'M BROKEN HEARTED CAUSE HE TRULY WAS MY MISSING PUZZLE PIECE I WILL NEVER FIND SOMEONE WHO COMPLETES MY HEART EVER AGAIN - WHO WITHOUT A WORD CAN MAKE ME FEEL SO SPECIAL ....... I'M SO WORTHLESS NOW- I FEEL DIRTY AND LIKE A WHORE " ITS LIKE THAT SONG- " I'M THE FOOL IN LOVE WITH THE FOOL, WHO'S STILL IN LOVE WITH YOU"....... I HOPE THAT HIS WIFE AND HIM WORK THIS OUT - CAUSE SHE IS SO LUCKY AND I'M SO ENVIOUS - SHE IS HIS EVERYTHING AND ALL ALONG I THOUGHT IT WAS ME....
SCOTT WHO WAS MY BEST GUY FRIEND AND LOVER FOR 9 YEARS- JUST BETRAYED ME FOUND OUT HE (WAS/IS / HAS ALWAYS BEEN MARRIED!) , AND HE PROPOSED TO ME AND WANTED ME TO MOVE TO FLORIDA TO BE WITH HIM.... AND I WAS ACTUALLY GOING TO DO IT! HOW COULD I HAVE BEEN SO BLIND? WHY WAS I SO STUPID? WHEN WILL I EVER HAVE SOMEONE LOVE ME , WHO I CAN REALLY HAVE...... I'VE BEEN ALONE FOREVER AND WILL CONTINUE TO BE THIS WAY- I DON'T THINK I CAN EVER TRUST- I WILL ALWAYS BE LOOKING FOR THE BOTTOM TO DROP OUT OR SOMETHING TO MESS THINGS UP, AND I FEEL SO BAD FOR HIS WIFE- WHAT HE MUST HAVE PUT HER THROUGH WHEN HE WAS WITH ME- I HONESTLY NEVER WOULDVE EVEN TALKED TO HIM OVER THE PHONE IF I HAD KNOWN HE WAS MARRIED.......... I'M CRYING, I'M SAD , I'M ANGRY, I'M BROKEN HEARTED CAUSE HE TRULY WAS MY MISSING PUZZLE PIECE I WILL NEVER FIND SOMEONE WHO COMPLETES MY HEART EVER AGAIN - WHO WITHOUT A WORD CAN MAKE ME FEEL SO SPECIAL ....... I'M SO WORTHLESS NOW- I FEEL DIRTY AND LIKE A WHORE " ITS LIKE THAT SONG- " I'M THE FOOL IN LOVE WITH THE FOOL, WHO'S STILL IN LOVE WITH YOU"....... I HOPE THAT HIS WIFE AND HIM WORK THIS OUT - CAUSE SHE IS SO LUCKY AND I'M SO ENVIOUS - SHE IS HIS EVERYTHING AND ALL ALONG I THOUGHT IT WAS ME....
I mean....isn't that usually why we cheat? To fill a void that isn't being fulfilled at home? Sweetheart, like countrycitymix said, YOU WILL FIND SOMEONE BETTER. Take if from a CS. Every woman I cheated on was because I found another woman that was the same as the one I was dating, BUT more!! Maybe one cooked better than the other or sex was better or she took better care of me...the fact is, you and his wife both gave him something he was not willing to loose. YOU ARE BETTER OFF WITHOUT HIM. You will find him in another man, but the difference is, YOU WILL BE SPECIAL TO THAT ONE MAN!