I just got a call from mom who has someone coming from an assisted living facility to talk to her. just want I want!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Except for the constant reminders that she really wants to die at home. I am in the worst shape of my life at this very minute. The woman is dying and all I can think about is the never ending guilt she has placed on me for most of my life. I was guilted into trying to take care of my brother because she claimed "you have to help him you are the only one he listens to" of course when i was unable to fix the situation, he died and it took me 2 years t o stop blaming myself. i want to sign out from work and get so drunk that i pass out. I could take a leave from work for her...but I do not want to be her caregiver....there I said it. And i am beside myself that she continues to manipulate even from her death bed. What kind of person does not want to take care of their own mother?! OMG......I cannot find my husband and my therapist cannot see me until tomorrow. I want to go over there and tell her what she has done to me. WHat kind of person wants to do that?! I don't want to live anymore
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