I can understand you situation, I am caring for my mother since my Dad got ill and passed away recently, I took care of both when he became ill. My mother has Dementia, and it is not easy, I am close to losing my home and vehicle because I have had to take time off of work, family has not be very helpful to me, only get excuses from them.

that sounds rough. I totally get it. I am near to losing my job because of taking off so much time and I don't own a vehicle! I could have bought one if I hadn't spent close to $6000 bringing mom to live with me and she is most ungrateful. my sister is the devil, really bad and because my mom is living with me now she is back in my life. I swear that bitch is going to push me completely over the edge. what kills me is my mom doesn't care not only that she treats me like crap but that she treats her like crap, too? arrrhhhhgg. the situation is so twisted and here I am in the middle of it all, the one who reached out to help, the one who actually save her life when she was having a stroke and i'm the one being used and treated the worst. go figure. wow. just wow.
anyway, sorry for what you are going through. that is very noble what you have done for your parents and I hope you get a break real soon. thx for writing me. the online stuff is really the only place I have to turn other than calling the suicide hotline which I do on occasion when I get really upset. they have always been really nice to me and don't mind talking to me even if I am actually not suicidal but just really upset. try to take some time for yourself and i'll do same!!!