I'm not sure I understand icjen what you mean. Does it have to be on the actual chair? I would like to help you out if I can so if you explain a little more in detail it might help others help you.

Yes the pad is on my chair

I'm not sure where this question is coming from as we've commented on this very question last week. Numerous posters gave advice through posting or pm's; myself included.

ICJen,,, you could look into a health supply store. There are pads made for chairs that are designed specifically not to look like a pad, their seat covers. You could also talk with your doctor's office or a rehabilitation center that could answer the question very quickly for you.

Wishing you the best.
PD

What kind of pads are those. People just mention this and. I get no answers. And it's one of the embarrassing factors in my life

Here is one site;
http://www.essentialmedicalsupply.com/products/transport-amp-wheelchair-accessories/reusable-wheelchair-pads

If these are not what you are looking for; call a health supply store in your area and ask for their assistance. I've already forwarded you a chat line site for this; you should be all set.

I don't have a working washer and dryer so I can't wash them tears why I use disposable.

I replied to your first message in a lot of detail.
I am not answering your question as an occupational therapist, but as a person who knows some things about wheelchair cushions (I couldn't possibly answer your question as an OT since I have never met or assessed you).
If your mobility is very affected by your condition, it is recommended that you get a proper wheelchair cushion to protect your skin from bedsores. There are a lot of factors to think about when deciding on a cushion - how easy it is for you to shift your weight, how easy it is for you to sit up straight, how often your adult diaper leaks (although it shouldn't leak often if it fits properly), etc.
if you don't have a washing machine, I would suggest buying multiple cushion covers so your caregiver can wash them all at once when it's time for laundry. I would not recommend a disposable cover because they move around, aren't that effective at keeping your wheelchair clean, and like you said they are embarrassing.
since you are asking the same question on here repeatedly, it seems that you are not satisfied with the answers you are getting. Perhaps you should show these answers to your caregiver so he/she can help you decide. I would strongly suggest finding an occupational therapist to help you because it sounds like you would be better off preparing for the future instead of just using a temporary disposable cover that will not be best in the long run. Good luck.