Bullying Support Group
Bullying is the act of intentionally causing harm to others, through verbal harassment, physical assault, or other more subtle methods of coercion such as manipulation. Bullying can be defined in many different ways, but one thing is clear: no one deserves to be bullied. If you or someone you know is coping with bullying, this is the place to share your feelings and get...
i finally had a good day yesterday, but when it crashed down when i called my friend and forced out information that she was being bullied. she was being called a whore by a mother of some younger girl at our apartment complex, and i KNOW she isn't one. she's afraid of sex, but even so, the damn woman made that rumour and now whenever she goes outside, people go back inside and sh's being isolated. the boy the woman claimed took her virginity is having it bad too. i think he believes that she told the damned woman that. i don't know, i don't know much more but i am worried.
she's not suicidal, but her mum's suicide has been influencing her lately. it has been making her say things that are close to what i myself have said in times of weakness.
she couldn't sleep and i'm afraid of what will happen to her at school, or in better words; what already happened. she didn't want to go, and i don't know if she did, but i'm sure it will get worse.
i was able to make her smile last night and joked about me and her other friend who were on her side, and made her laugh...but she is still a woman, running on hormones, still vunerable to the words being said. i don't know what i should do for her.
i don't know what i should do for myself wither, but me isn't important right now.
she's not suicidal, but her mum's suicide has been influencing her lately. it has been making her say things that are close to what i myself have said in times of weakness.
she couldn't sleep and i'm afraid of what will happen to her at school, or in better words; what already happened. she didn't want to go, and i don't know if she did, but i'm sure it will get worse.
i was able to make her smile last night and joked about me and her other friend who were on her side, and made her laugh...but she is still a woman, running on hormones, still vunerable to the words being said. i don't know what i should do for her.
i don't know what i should do for myself wither, but me isn't important right now.
In any event - I think that the fact your friend has you and her other friends to be with and laugh with is really important and good for you for supporting your friend. We should all have friends like you.
in my opinion, she is alright....but i have never seen the daughter.
Most of us do face bullies sooner or later in life - if and when she does face a bully again - she'll remember how she was supported by you and her other friends and hopefully that will bring her strength.
I think you are doing a very good job of helping her. If you are afraid you might go off on this mother - I think I would not confront her - you're right, you could make things worse if you did.
Good luck to your friend.