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Hi EveryOne,
Back when I was in high school 00" - 04" I was bullied very bad every day every week it really didnt stop intil about a week before graduation . Anywhos I think it was in my junior yr when it really started to become worse for me. I took this girl under my wing that no one would befriend and acts all weird / crazy and all. Where the girl was asking me if I loved my friend which was a girl I told her yes just as a friend but nothing more cause there is love / care between friends. Anyways the girl then started to spread rumors that I was a lesbian and that I loved this other girl which wasnt true . She would call me out before choir class infront of the whole class and made me cry alot of times. So over the days weeks months I was starting to believe the lies and rumors about me saying that I was a lesbian and was ready to truly convince myself that I was and question my very own gender. I was battling this for months and weeks but some how I got my thinking out of that pattern or way or by also talking to my friends about it.
So do yall think I should tell my hubby about this or not?
Back when I was in high school 00" - 04" I was bullied very bad every day every week it really didnt stop intil about a week before graduation . Anywhos I think it was in my junior yr when it really started to become worse for me. I took this girl under my wing that no one would befriend and acts all weird / crazy and all. Where the girl was asking me if I loved my friend which was a girl I told her yes just as a friend but nothing more cause there is love / care between friends. Anyways the girl then started to spread rumors that I was a lesbian and that I loved this other girl which wasnt true . She would call me out before choir class infront of the whole class and made me cry alot of times. So over the days weeks months I was starting to believe the lies and rumors about me saying that I was a lesbian and was ready to truly convince myself that I was and question my very own gender. I was battling this for months and weeks but some how I got my thinking out of that pattern or way or by also talking to my friends about it.
So do yall think I should tell my hubby about this or not?
I think it depends on him and your relationship.
I wonder if you feel that he will think less of you if you tell him this.
Two things: If you are not ready to share with him, then wait.
If you think that he will be understanding, and you need to do this to improve your relationship, you may want to share a bit of your experiences and see how he reacts.
Good Luck