I am bullied by my mother, her husband, my father and my sister. I don't what it would be classified as, verbal abuse, bullying, or are they pretty much the same???

for example....this weekend I asked my dad to order the pizza...his reply was "well im surprised you don't have pizza hut on speed dial"....i have a weight problem and he is constantly making rude comments in front of me.

My mother's husband is a TOTAL dick to me. He puts me down every chance he gets and I am supposed to just "lighten up because he is only joking"...my mother goes from bitch to super bitch (screaming and hanging up on me and then asking ME if I am trying to push HER away?????

There are sooo many other things that I could share, but this is just some of themost recent crap. I think I bury a lot of it inside because I am hurt by one of them constantly. I have done a better job recently of tryiing to distance myself, but right now my niece is in town staying with my father and it has been decided by my "sister" that it should be MY job to shuttle my niece between my mother and father's house. Last summer when my sister and niece were here, my sister and I got into a huge fight. For the whole rest of that week, I wasnt allowed over at my mother or fathers house to spend time with my niece. And now my sister is "calling the shots" from her throne eight hours away. my parents refuse to communicate with each other to share time wirh my niece. I asked my mother what would happen if I didnt live nearby to do all the driving between their houses? My mothers ahole husband says "yeah and.what would you have done if we hadntbeen there for youwhen you gad cancer??" Yes, I have had cancer twice, and both times my family did THE bare minimum for me...and I do mean bare....and he hg as the nerve to throw that up in my face???? I am so stressed thay im chewing my nails off and I have headaches everyday. Wgat should I do about this sitiation with my niece??? Sorry to be so long winded but I am very hurt and upset (as usual)...thank you so much for listening.