Bullying Support Group
Bullying is the act of intentionally causing harm to others, through verbal harassment, physical assault, or other more subtle methods of coercion such as manipulation. Bullying can be defined in many different ways, but one thing is clear: no one deserves to be bullied. If you or someone you know is coping with bullying, this is the place to share your feelings and get...
I don't know how to start this, I have been bullied all threw my high school life. It started in year 7 i went to an all girl school and the girls would call me mean things but nothing horrible, I moved schools at the end of year 7 and at my new school it was great i was friends with everyone and having a good time but then i had to move in year 9 and that's when it kind of went down hill, On my first day of this new school a girl in my year level who i had never talked to started bushing me and called me fat and stupid and i went home. it was one of the worst first days of my life the next day we went to the school and they talked to the girl and she apologized i thought it was better i was wrong.
Threw out all of year 9 she kept calling me names but i just ignored her, about half way threw this year (year 10) she started face booking me saying she wants to beat me up and i tried to ignore it but it was getting worse, during school hours she would shove me in the locker bay and say she wanted to kill me that's when i started fearing what she would do next (i have no idea why this started i didn't talk to her) i talked to my mum about it and for a month we contacted the school and they kept saying they were doing stuff to fix it but they didn't do a very good job not only did they NOT contact her parents or sit us both down for a talk they told her my mum came in to school which caused the bully to pick at me about being a baby because i got my mums help.
Now i have to move schools because i am no longer comfortable there because of her threatening my life and the school ignoring it. Now i'm not only stressed about her going to hurt me i have to move schools and i am horrible at making friends so i am scared i don't know what to do anymore the school wont help.
Threw out all of year 9 she kept calling me names but i just ignored her, about half way threw this year (year 10) she started face booking me saying she wants to beat me up and i tried to ignore it but it was getting worse, during school hours she would shove me in the locker bay and say she wanted to kill me that's when i started fearing what she would do next (i have no idea why this started i didn't talk to her) i talked to my mum about it and for a month we contacted the school and they kept saying they were doing stuff to fix it but they didn't do a very good job not only did they NOT contact her parents or sit us both down for a talk they told her my mum came in to school which caused the bully to pick at me about being a baby because i got my mums help.
Now i have to move schools because i am no longer comfortable there because of her threatening my life and the school ignoring it. Now i'm not only stressed about her going to hurt me i have to move schools and i am horrible at making friends so i am scared i don't know what to do anymore the school wont help.
I think you did the right thing by moving schools, and I hope that you never have to hear from her again. That girl obviously has a lot of problems.
It is unnerving starting new schools (and universities) but you'll be safe, and that's what's most important.
One thing I've learned from years of bullying is don't try to look small and stare at your shoes. Bullies feel safer going for someone that looks weaker. So hold your head up high and be comfortable as you deserve to be.
I know in the friend making department that when someone new talks to you, you start panicking about what you should say and your mind draws a blank, so try focusing all your attention on them. They have there own insecurities, so think of it as being kind by showing an interest.
That said, I hope you meet some awesome new friends and that your the teachers are responsible (and not sleep inducing. :))