Bullying Support Group

Bullying is the act of intentionally causing harm to others, through verbal harassment, physical assault, or other more subtle methods of coercion such as manipulation. Bullying can be defined in many different ways, but one thing is clear: no one deserves to be bullied. If you or someone you know is coping with bullying, this is the place to share your feelings and get...

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Bullying effects in my life

Anabellesk
Anabellesk

Since I was a little kid I was often bullied because of my appearance, since early childhood to highschool. It was so bad even a teacher rallied my classmates to bully me more, sent me out of the class and told them shit about me. Highschool was total hell. Also.. I'm adopted so I always knew my family didn't love me that much, except my mom, but she has her own problems so I can't confide in her. It has always been part of my life to be looked down on. I'm depressed and feel very lonely I don't have any friends I can talk to due to my bad experiences I can't trust others.


Since I'm very ugly and have health issues (skin and hair) and overweight my whole life is shitty. Due to my depression I can't move on to get my college degree nor have the will to even try. The things I used to like no longer make me happy. To be honest my greatest hope is to die one day so I don't have to deal with it all anymore. I'm here cuz I needed to say it, the things I can't say elsewhere.

Madsiekins
Madsiekins
Honestly.. I get you. This may have been written a long time ago, but if you ever, ever ever see this, if you’re even there, just know I’ve been right along side you. I would get physically and verbally abused, only the physical harm really bothered me at this point. Our first school, until Pre-K to 3rd my brothers and I were treated horribly. So horribly we begged our parents to move to another school, a school my now little sister goes to today... At that school is where physical harm began, all starting in 7th, even after I had no friends then. I felt very insecure about how I looked, definitely, and everyone just seemed to hate on me for no reason. Bullying is something that affects people so much, if you’re a survivor of bullying I immediately respect you more.. it had such a bad affect on me I’m just homeschooled now. Sometimes whenever I’m in town, I see one of those kids and they would just punch me down. Although I haven’t seen them in such a long time, it has this huge influence on me to this day. If you’re reading this, I want to talk to you and let you know everything’s ok. If you wanna talk, I’ll gladly share my bullying stories with you.. I love finding someone to relate, I feel like I connect with them on a whole different level.
Jillsaundars
Jillsaundars
Time to find a new group of people, I wish that had been done for you years ago

Basically you are not ugly, these people are saying that because they know it will make you feel so bad and it can be very convincing and believable

Don't let the tactics of the enemy get you down

Your grown now, get yourself a personal trainer work out hard every day and within a week you'll feel so much better

Lose weight feel good get v some nice clothes

Go to places where the people are nice and leave behind the toxic people

Your going to have to train yourself to think you look ok after all this abuse

I started with accepting the fact my eye lashes looked ok and distracting myself from thinking about my looks

After feeling so hideous as a teenager I used to scream at my reflection in the mirror and was house bound in case I bumped into my school mates our someone send something horrible to me

To actually feeling pretty attractive these days

I can tell you that childhood abuse by peers can be overcome

And don't be telling me your loved less cos your adopted now!!! Come on now