I can't get my head around what you are saying. You're 20 years old. He's what, talking dirty to you by phone or text. Welcome to the real world, where young men are horney and looking to get laid every chance they can.

The whole fuckboy thing and saying he's treating you like a whore is almost too bizarre for me to wrap my mind around. You're talking like someone my grandmother's age, and I'm like fifty. In modern society in the United States of America, if that's where your hailing from, people are attracted to each other, they flirt and the flirting turns sexual as the relationship progresses.

If you are interested in a real relationship, then speak up and clarify your intent. Then flirt you pretty ass off. That's how it works. Keep things fun, light and sexy. Loosen up about the talking sexy part, because unless he's being totally crass, that's just part of letting you know he's finds you physically attractive.

Meet up face-to-face and talk, laugh and spend time together. Make it clear to him that the relationship needs to be on solid ground before introducing full on sexing. Loosen up about the talking sexy part, because unless he's being totally crass, that's just part of letting you know he's finds you physically attractive.

If he stays connected, you're all good. If he begins ghosting on you, then move on. Just because you're fascinated by him does not mean he's the right man for you. Keep all your options open, cause you haven't even tried having a real relationship with him yet.

You already know he is a fuckboy, I think the real question here is why do you want to be with someone who, in your own words, treats you like a whore? Fuckboys are very manipulative, don't fall for that if you already know what he wants, you won't change him into the nice guy he pretended to be when you first met, you deserve better.

Are you saying that they never fall for the right girl? Or that girls can't play frivolously too? Do you really want to end up an old lady who never lived a little? Youth truly is wasted on the young.

There's a difference between flirting and being a fuckboy. You cannot change a fuckboy, and to think you can is just being delusional. There's also a difference between living and letting someone manipulate you. You don't have to let a man use you to 'live a little'.
He is being disrespectful to her, and the fact that he isn't ghosting her is not a good sign, is just what fuckboys do. Taking care of yourself and protecting yoursel is not wasting your youth.
There are too many people in this world to waste your time with someone who clearly just wants to use you.

Let me guess. You are intrigued by him and flattered by his pursuit of you. You think "he can fuck any girl he wants to, but he want to fuck ME and treat ME like a whore and call ME a whore. Wow, I must be special because he chose ME to disrespect. I'm such a lucky girl."

To change the situation, you should change your thinking, respect yourself, demand that others respect you, and delete/block this fuckboy/jerk/asshole/loser.

So according to Gutted, if you don't make extremely foolish (and possibly dangerous) choices when young, a woman will end up "an old lady who never lived a little."

This is how young, naive women become prostitutes and victim of sex trafficking. If a known fuckboy can entice a young woman into a purely degrading sexual relationship with him, it is easy enough to then up the stakes. Soon the young woman, on the behest of "her" FB is engaging in sexually behavior with other FBs and soon turning tricks 3-4 times a night with other FBs (known as johns) while "her" FB, now her pimp, is reaping financial rewards.

Excuse me, I'd rather be an old maid than "live a little" like that.

Is this a Christian site? It certainly seems like a lot of people go the extra mile to twist things all about to make talking about and having sex something obscene. To view this 'sexually degrading behavior' is just plain stupid.

The one and only point I'm trying to make is that men's interactions can sometimes be driven by hormones and have a sexual overlay. This is something that gown up's are all to aware of. Women learn to manage a man's expectations. If a 20-year-old girl is afraid to even interaction with a man because he flirts in a sexual way, that's fine. Not everyone is comfortable with everything.

All the ridiculous labeling is not helpful. Labeling men as fuckboys, man whores and women as sluts and whores seems like a some kind of ghost whispering from the past.

Insinuating that a every or the majority of men who flirt in a sexual way are pimps looking to lock a person into prostitution is simply absurd. Does that happen? Yes, but if you know anything at all about grooming women for prostitution, it usually does not happen that way. Pimps have system. They target women, get close to them and earn their trust. When the woman trust them enough to leave the area with them, that's when it happens. I'm attaching a link to an article by a woman who was trafficked. She escaped, researched how that happens and has dedicated her life to helping women get out. She felt comfortable visiting him in another city, BECAUSE HE WAS NICE AND RESPECTFUL.

http://www.cnn.com/2017/06/28/world/elle-snow-trafficking/index.html

PS: Using human trafficking as a way to scare the crap out of young woman trying to figure how to interact with a peer is really scraping the bottom of the proverbial barrel when it comes to digging up facts to support a point. You should be ashamed. I'm dropping a couple of links with lots of real information on the harsh reality of human trafficking. People get trafficked all over the globe. Some end up prostitutes or forced into unwanted marriages, other have their organs harvested, some end up as field hands or domestic servants, so don't think of people being trafficked as just one thing.

https://www.pinterest.com/pin/208573026463262116/

https://www.alternet.org/news-amp-politics/what-most-common-way-people-are-lured-sex-trafficking-new-study-shows-surprising

thank you guys for your answers
i need to clarify some details mainly for Gutted i'm not labeling him as FB just because he flirted with me sexually but he was kinda exaggerating we barely knew each other and all he could talk about was sex not only did he talk about it but also invited me to do it . When i tried to make him understand that it's not what i'm looking for he got offended and backed up but he always shows up again to give it a try if i'd ever change my mind
i think he can be dangerous becuz in my cultural background it's almost a taboo. He is not interested in getting to know me abviously. i'm just one of the targets he wants to abuse