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HeaveToo 02/28/2010

You will not defeat me
You will not control my emotions
You will not control my life
You will not effect my life
You will not be in my life
You will not manipulate me
You will not order me around
You will not make me be lonely forever
You will not keep me from moving on
You will not change me
You will not own me
You will not keep me from being me
You will not trouble me
Your Memories won't haunt me

You are no more to me
You will never be in my life again
You will never know the happiness I could have given you
You will never know the support I could have given you
You will never know me!

I am a better person now
I have moved on with my life
I have learned who I am
I will stay positive
I will remember all the lessons I have learned
I will stay true to myself
I am I!!!

Just a few things that you should tell yourself right now. You will make it through this and be a better person when you come out on the other side. The world is constantly changing and moving on....so should we!

deleted_user 02/28/2010

Not on here it's not.

deleted_user 02/28/2010

I printed this and hung by my bathroom mirror to remind me everyday!

Thank you

lycesq 02/28/2010

Nice post, Heave - I do appreciate it because it's so affirming!

Lynne

deleted_user 02/28/2010

Thank-you Heave..I needed to read this today..

Lucille6 03/01/2010

Heave to the rescue!!!Thank you for the insight.Ever soulful,our pirate friend!!!U help to brighten my day!

deleted_user 03/01/2010

I respectfully disagree with G.. I am there and others are too, and we are here, because we care for others and so that they may see that we can all find our way to acceptance.
Thanks darlin for the positivity! That will get you far in live and love. Big hugs, Kimmee

deleted_user 03/01/2010

I like this, Heave! :)

deleted_user 03/01/2010

Defeat and disarm.

Interesting concepts.

Does it really mean you won't take my feet, and you won't take my arms?

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