Breakups & Divorce Support Group
Just broke up with someone or in the midst of a difficult divorce? Breaking up is difficult no matter what the circumstances are. They say that time heals all wounds, but sometimes a listening ear or a hug can work wonders for the heart. Whether you need a place to vent, someone to hold you to No Contact, or need advice about what to do, we're here to help.
Middle of last week after three months of analyzing the relationship and breakups, I finally decided it's time to let go. As good as the good times were for both of us, the relationship was a fundamentally unhealthy one and caused us both pain.
I'm not sitting here pining for her and really haven't since the last breakup. I admit I did have a sliver of hope, but not much beyond that. The first two were very painful and I think drained my emotional reservoir.
Funny thing is prior to my decision last week I was feeling good physically and not all that bad emotionally. The past few days I've been kind of drained physically though I still feel okay emotionally. Today I'm really drained.
Is this just the aftermath of an intense and tumultuous relationship that had extreme highs _and_ lows, and is now finally and firmly over in my mind?
Is a part of my mind now telling my body, 'Listen bud, you're not aware how much this took out of you, and now I'm letting you know.'?
I'm not sitting here pining for her and really haven't since the last breakup. I admit I did have a sliver of hope, but not much beyond that. The first two were very painful and I think drained my emotional reservoir.
Funny thing is prior to my decision last week I was feeling good physically and not all that bad emotionally. The past few days I've been kind of drained physically though I still feel okay emotionally. Today I'm really drained.
Is this just the aftermath of an intense and tumultuous relationship that had extreme highs _and_ lows, and is now finally and firmly over in my mind?
Is a part of my mind now telling my body, 'Listen bud, you're not aware how much this took out of you, and now I'm letting you know.'?
Ah well, I had planned on beginning resistance training today and aerobic tomorrow. Got my barbells, dumbells and plates out of the basement and bought a new bench over the weekend. However I'm going to give myself a week. Last thing I need is a twisted joint or pulled muscle.
If you have any aches or soreness afterward, let me know where to slap 'em on. ;-)
Last week I finally let my anger loose, steeled my determination, and let go of any hope I had left.
Early this week the phsyical caught up with the emotional and I was exhausted.
Last night I had an absolute blast at a meetup and danced more than I have in many a year and with total strangers as this is a new meetup group I just joined.
good for you!
here's to hoping for more nights like that
cheers!