Breakups & Divorce Support Group
Just broke up with someone or in the midst of a difficult divorce? Breaking up is difficult no matter what the circumstances are. They say that time heals all wounds, but sometimes a listening ear or a hug can work wonders for the heart. Whether you need a place to vent, someone to hold you to No Contact, or need advice about what to do, we're here to help.
I just got back from a Vegas trip...and just when I thought I had my perfect little getaway weekend, I had a nightmare about my ex. I feel like I can't avoid him no matter what I do because I always see him in my head.
I had a dream that I was chasing after him and parking outside of his house waiting for him to come back to me. Or walking my dog by his house waiting for him to notice me. And one day I walked by and I saw him and his ex wife and his four year old kid playing in his yard. And he introduced me to them without any remorse and in this happy little way and I was stuck with his ex wife just gossiping while my heart hurt from him. And then I found myself back outside in his driveway, but this time he texted me saying "I know you've been waiting outside of my house every day. Stop wasting my time and go date one of my friends or something"
His face was so vivid in my dream. I'm just so tired of being tormented by memories of him and his face. Its been six months.........
And I feel like in many ways posting on this site has been a healthy way for me to vent but its also just made me realize how angry I am about him and how he hurt me so much and left me in the dirt. All I see is anger, anger, anger...but no relief. I'm angry at how he broke my heart and how I meant nothing to him...but when will I ever recover?
I had a dream that I was chasing after him and parking outside of his house waiting for him to come back to me. Or walking my dog by his house waiting for him to notice me. And one day I walked by and I saw him and his ex wife and his four year old kid playing in his yard. And he introduced me to them without any remorse and in this happy little way and I was stuck with his ex wife just gossiping while my heart hurt from him. And then I found myself back outside in his driveway, but this time he texted me saying "I know you've been waiting outside of my house every day. Stop wasting my time and go date one of my friends or something"
His face was so vivid in my dream. I'm just so tired of being tormented by memories of him and his face. Its been six months.........
And I feel like in many ways posting on this site has been a healthy way for me to vent but its also just made me realize how angry I am about him and how he hurt me so much and left me in the dirt. All I see is anger, anger, anger...but no relief. I'm angry at how he broke my heart and how I meant nothing to him...but when will I ever recover?
secondly, i used to be big into dream interpretation. and it seems to me that him saying "go date other people" is your own subconscious trying to say "listen, you can be happier with others. you deserve to be happier. you deserve to date a good guy for once". even your subconscious is telling you that he isn't worth your feelings