Breakups & Divorce Support Group

Just broke up with someone or in the midst of a difficult divorce? Breaking up is difficult no matter what the circumstances are. They say that time heals all wounds, but sometimes a listening ear or a hug can work wonders for the heart. Whether you need a place to vent, someone to hold you to No Contact, or need advice about what to do, we're here to help.

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saskram 05/20/2018

today is one of those days. Those days that I miss my ex so badly. I often sit and wonder why. Why do I miss him? He probably doesn’t even think of me. His life is continuing as normal. Why miss someone who was so unsure about being with you. I’m trying so hard to move on but it isn’t easy at all. Not a day goes by in which I do not think of him. Sometimes I wish he’d at least message to let me know that he’s thinking of me. I just need to move forward and I don’t know how. It almost seems impossible right now. Please help

Ghostdancer 05/20/2018

It hurts no matter how long or recent the separation is. Time will help you but don’t guess what he’s doing or feeling. It only serves to feed your loneliness and feeling crazy and lost without him. Best stop wondering if he will contact you. Everything you feel isn’t even getting to him and like a mirror is only reflecting back on you. I’m not any better at my separation but you will keep getting better with time is my thought, blessings be.......

Charmcity88 05/20/2018

I feel your pain everything reminds you of that special someone. Understand that life moves on and its not healthy to sit and worry for long periods about someone that isn't doing the same. I'm in the same position its been a few weeks and her image still comes up everyday. Hopefully time heals all. We have to stay busy. Huggsss

barnmaidbren 05/20/2018

I've been through that before too. Honestly I think we just miss being connected to somebody not necessarily the exact somebody. I thought I missed my ex until I started talking to him again and then I remembered why I left LOL

light_my_way 05/20/2018

I struggle with the same thoughts and feelings. At times I realize it is more the relationship and good times I miss as opposed to him. He discarded me and what we had so there's nothing to hold onto or go back to. It's futile and self destructive. On those days I try my best to focus on acceptance and positive thinking about what the future will bring. You will get through it. Hugs xx

11Christmases 05/21/2018

If there's anything worse than missing an ex, it's the feeling you get from beating yourself up for missing him. I have struggled with this too. One thing that helps is focusing on what I did right in the relationship, and not what might have been "wrong" with me, why he didn't think I was "good enough". Also, I go out and socialize as much as I have time for, and I don't turn down a social invitation if it works with my schedule. I find those weeks when I get out the most are my happiest times. Laughter is the best medicine. I remind myself while I'm out that he's probably sitting home alone watching a movie he has already seen three times, while I'm out meeting new people and gaining new experiences all the time. Hugs!

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