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wifes birthday today

nightfire
nightfire

some of you know my fresh situation and today is my wifes birthday, i sent her and ecard and a text saying happy birthday, i want to talk on the phone badly, but i guess shes not at that point yet, shes said that she doesnt know how she'll feel months from now, and i pray every day/night that she will say yes we can try again. i know im being impatiant, but i want so badly to show her the person i can be.

Gutted
Gutted
I would imagine she just wants to enjoy her holiday free from reminders of being cheated on, financially taken advantage of, and controlled by you. She's asked you to give her some time. Why don't you, cause nothing has really changed with you except a bunch of empty promises.

I'd really like to see you get into therapy and work on moving forward in a more positive direction.

Once again, being a cheater, you are posting to the wrong board. This one is mostly people coping with cheating controlling partners, not consoling the cheating, controlling partners cause they're just real sorry.

Hate to be harsh but you don't really listen to anyone, nor do you seem willing to actually change anything. I don't know how to help you cause you apparently are not willing to help yourself.
nightfire
nightfire
under the title Breakups & Divorce Support Group it clearly states what its for and that is why i am here, you are rude and assume how things were, you might say a few good things, but in all you are hostel to me, even for just saying happy birthday, in all you can say what you wish, but ive ignored you, im here for support, not hostility
Gutted
Gutted
That's fine. You ignore everyone who tries to explain the way of the world to you. You last post went on for 6 or 7 pages with you just ignoring people off and on, cause they were saying what you wanted to hear. I don't know how that's helpful.