Breakups & Divorce Support Group
Just broke up with someone or in the midst of a difficult divorce? Breaking up is difficult no matter what the circumstances are. They say that time heals all wounds, but sometimes a listening ear or a hug can work wonders for the heart. Whether you need a place to vent, someone to hold you to No Contact, or need advice about what to do, we're here to help.
Well here goes nothing. This is my second marriage. The first one I married a girl had been with for four years. Well after a year and half of marriage. I found out the worst news. She had been cheating on me. Well I was stupid and decided I wanted to work on this. I work as a nurse so I took a travel assignment to get away from my hometown in Virginia. Well while in Texas I found out she had been talking to him. So she ended up flying out home. Which kind of gets us to this story. I met this girl and she was amazing. We connected on so many levels so fast. I immediately fell head over heels for her. We met in September of 2014. A lot of things happened in the next five months. She has had family issues for years. And we faced the same problems. She would move out to live on her own. I was still travel nursing so I was giving her money considering she was only working part time at a bank. So for months I supported her. Well we would get married in February of 2015. And would continue traveling. Well granted we got married fast even though things were so good. But over the next little while we would run into issues. Not getting along great. Each other seemed so different so quick. So this past November we decided to try a separation. I moved off but we stayed in pretty close contact. We decided to talk again and try dating again. Things were going great. We were getting along so good. But then one night when she was working at her second job some guy drove by and asked for her number. The next day she went on a date with him. That night she decided we were done. One night, one random guy, and a date is all it took to take away two years of marriage. It's just now been a week. Probably the hardest week of my life. I know people say time heals but I'm not doing well anymore. I feel crazy as crazy can be. I have good times and bad times. I'm scared to sleep. Afraid to be alone. Afraid of so much. All I want is these feelings to go away. To feel okay again. To be happy. She says this is hard on her but I have a hard time believing that. She's with him all the time. And here I am left with nothing.
