I'm sorry you're going through this. Happened to me too, years ago. I can honestly say, for me, I'm glad I'm not w/ him anymore. I couldn't make him do right by me, if I'd wanted to. I am better off than I was.

No, not at all. An affair is a sign something needed to be worked on, but not necessarily divorce.

You and your wife are the only ones that can decide
To divorce, that is a very personal decision.

We did end up divorcing which was a blessing though
it hurt. My ex was checked out and long gone emotionally
From me and the marriage. There generally is no good
outcome when they are like that.

He was cheating in his heart and had not been a decent
man or husband for years. HUGS

In my mind it's pretty much the worst thing you can do to another person. And she still did it. How could I ever forgive something like that? And I've felt that the relationship has been one-sided. I do EVERYTHING for her but don't ever the same in return. I think this is my chance to start over, but it's really hard to do.

It is very hard. Support fro family, friends and support groups can help a lot. Hope you're finding the support you need

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