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Just broke up with someone or in the midst of a difficult divorce? Breaking up is difficult no matter what the circumstances are. They say that time heals all wounds, but sometimes a listening ear or a hug can work wonders for the heart. Whether you need a place to vent, someone to hold you to No Contact, or need advice about what to do, we're here to help.

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Samuel2891 01/31/2017

So as some of you know my story some dont but my wife had i been seperated for a month now lil over a month. Things have just been going down hill like crazy.. yeaterday i told her im done fighting im done arguing. I still have alot of fweling for my wife. She has kicked me out the house and wants me to get a place to live but also wants me to pay money to her for the kids. Alot of money. I argued about it for awhile how am i going to support my self and you and kids. With that amount i have to give you. Im not made of money. So i was arguing with her for days about and wverytime we argued i would get hirt worst cuz of her words she said to me. I just couldnt take it anymore ao i told her no more im done i will give you the money only reason for the kids and i do care for her i want her to be happy.. mabey sounds wrong but o well deep down i know later in life. I will have food deeds happen for me to my good deeds for her and my kids..

Whats crazi is befor my wife was balmeing everything on me it was my fault etc. Today it was like idk a light went off in her head and she was nice to me today she told me i didnt cause all are problems etc. She also aound very warming avout workinf it out with me after a lil bit of time still cuz what has been going on which i understand.. juat crazy how her actions change that fast. Mabey she really belives me now when i say im done fighting which i am.. i know i cant make her love me or even be with me.. like i told her i can ahow i care for her in my actions who knows what future holds for us.. but as of today she gave me like a glimmer of hope for us. Are relationship. Mabey ahe feeling guilty for what she did. Im.not aure but today was a good day pain atill there but not as bad.. anyone know why she could be like this right now ill aee what 2marrow holds.. but seems like aomething went off in her head a little bit..

rob30miede 01/31/2017

My ex is seeing a man.. I am still friends but she wont show any kind of affection. There are days i hate her.. I think she dont want to see. Me any more.. She gives me alot of attitude.. She is the first woman i gave oral sex too. And i am 47...

Samuel2891 01/31/2017

Ya my wife was the samwe way man she would not show me any affection when we seperated. It was crazy i dont love you.. we are broken up are marriage is over. I can have friends if i want to (male Friends) you dont control me im garbage poece of crap father ahole u name it that how she was and im still here supporting her. Its ok tho i feel as it my karma for what ive done but seem like things might be turing around for me.. we will see tho.. this girl is my first ever love to man and we have two kids.. just crazi what happen but dont get mad argue or fight not worth it trust me..

MRbrokenheart 01/31/2017

My wife is seeing another man weve been separated since jan 2 2017 she ignores my calls and txt most of time. then ill stop few days later she call me. Act all sweet how are you doing how you holding up ect. every time it hits the reset button on the pain. I think it may be guilt on her part or she want something. I didn't get any relief till I decided I'm done I wont take her back even if she wanted to. your situation may be different just guard your heart for your sake.

Samuel2891 02/01/2017

Yes i feel u man its hope. But i still have my guard up but we will see what happens im just done tho if she wants me she can have me if not then im not worried about it..

hopefuleddie 02/06/2017

I hate divorce; and all the pain and difficulty comes with. If your wife is being nice to you, that is a good thing in my opinion; especially since you still care for her a lot. I'd say continue making small nice gestures to her with the hope that both of you will be willing to give your relationship one more try. Have you considered counseling? It might be of good help. To save money, you can google a non-profit who offers free counseling, especially since you now have to give your wife money for the children.

Samuel2891 02/06/2017

I hate divorce. I love my wife so dam much. I wont ever give up on my marriage till the day i die im serious.

Things have been going very well tho very slow and steady baby steps. We have not fully commited to get back togther yet. But we also agree on baby steps. So nothibg backfires on us. But still in limbo tho this could go any way. I have been slowly makeing changes in my self and im likeing them actually. I been very repectful with her decesion to the seperration and understanding the pain ahe must me going threw. Try to walk a day in her shoes after all the crap i put her threw is prob worat then i sersolsy understand.

I dont argue or fight with her and i look out for her and the kids. I have been comolitmenting her everyday even tho i dont see her i know she is always beautiful so i tell her and these xhanges so far i love being this guy this was the guy i was and lost track of.. the pain is atill lingering and i miss her like crazy but i also know i dont want to lose her. She really is my true love.

Her words have open up a lil bit as well she tolds me she has missed me and thinks about us/me all the times and she accepts that she was not perfect as well and she trying to be more forgiveing etc.. so there is alot of positive i have to hold on to.. im hopeing.

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