Breakups & Divorce Support Group
Just broke up with someone or in the midst of a difficult divorce? Breaking up is difficult no matter what the circumstances are. They say that time heals all wounds, but sometimes a listening ear or a hug can work wonders for the heart. Whether you need a place to vent, someone to hold you to No Contact, or need advice about what to do, we're here to help.
would be My guess. Some people never
Growup.
I stay away from things My ex might attend. I
have been no contact For 15 months. Its doable
if you take measures Which i did for my sanity
And healing. HUGS
As far as his motives, we can only speculate, but probably something along the lines of wanting to hurt you or wanting to make you feel jealous. Probably due to the fact that you cut off contact w him, he made a huge effort to make sure you'd see him. Either way, it's attention seeking behavior. It's hurtful, and I am so sorry you had to endure this. I had an ex-boyfriend that broke up with me, then showed up everywhere I went with my friends for seemingly months. We would just ignore him and move on elsewhere. I never found out WHY he did it (I maintained no-contact and he didn't approach us, he'd just sit and stare at us), but eventually it stopped.
Hopefully he will get tired of it once he sees it doesnt affect you. Honestly, hopefully he can't afford to keep going and you won't have to experience it again.
((((HUGS))))
Social media. He could possibly be watching
You too. HUGS
Above all, please remember others' opinion and actions don't define your value. It's hard right now, but you're worth so much and there are guys out there who will treat you with the awesomeness you deserve. There are a lot of resources, so message me if you want to chat! You're in my thoughts and prayers!