Breakups & Divorce Support Group
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My ex, while not seeming that way, but everyone around me is starting to notice, is an a****hole!
It seems that everytime he sees my boyfriend helping me, the next day I get these nasty e-mails.
I'm still getting over a sinus infection, boyfriend was cutely angry because I was trying to shovel 3' of drifted snow, and had to deal with ex-H clearing his rental property next door.
My ex came up with this new visitation schedule, and I'm mush right now, so called boyfriend, and maybe he can help me handle it. The only thing that got to me, ex wants my son on my birthday.
Everything is 50/50, and it really doesn't bother me how he wants to split our son's time, but it bothers boyfriend because ex takes advantage of my son's and my time.
It also got me that my ex took me off as a contact # with my son's high school. They know we are divorced, so how can they do that?
As I mentioned, my brain is mush, and whether I make sense, who knows, so will have to deal with that situation later.
I still love my ex as the father of my children, out of 23 yrs, we had a good 15, and it bugs boyfriend, but he was my 1st love and we've know each other over 25 yrs. He just says that while he loves his son, his wife is another story, and I have a problem with him not liking his wife at all.
I know boyfriend will stop by after work and give me his honest opinion, but I am a simp - ex-H walks all over me.
It seems that everytime he sees my boyfriend helping me, the next day I get these nasty e-mails.
I'm still getting over a sinus infection, boyfriend was cutely angry because I was trying to shovel 3' of drifted snow, and had to deal with ex-H clearing his rental property next door.
My ex came up with this new visitation schedule, and I'm mush right now, so called boyfriend, and maybe he can help me handle it. The only thing that got to me, ex wants my son on my birthday.
Everything is 50/50, and it really doesn't bother me how he wants to split our son's time, but it bothers boyfriend because ex takes advantage of my son's and my time.
It also got me that my ex took me off as a contact # with my son's high school. They know we are divorced, so how can they do that?
As I mentioned, my brain is mush, and whether I make sense, who knows, so will have to deal with that situation later.
I still love my ex as the father of my children, out of 23 yrs, we had a good 15, and it bugs boyfriend, but he was my 1st love and we've know each other over 25 yrs. He just says that while he loves his son, his wife is another story, and I have a problem with him not liking his wife at all.
I know boyfriend will stop by after work and give me his honest opinion, but I am a simp - ex-H walks all over me.
Ex is pissed that you are moving on. Knows that your birthday will hurt you.
Step-moms haven't had a chance since Snow White. Women are way more territorial than men when it comes to their kids.
What bothers me more is my boyfriend is tired of my ex's antics, and said I needed to 'man' up, and deal with him.
I hate confrontation, which is why I stayed in my marriage so long, but I eventually get there, and once I get there I'm fighting for the long haul.
I know he has someone else in his life, I don't ask, I really don't care because I figure better her, than I.
My ex tries everything to drive my boyfriend away, and it just strengthens our relationship.
I don't know what he's trying to prove to anyone, since he only moved a block away, and owns the duplex next to my home.
He knows when my son is at his house, my boyfriend could be around, and that's my choice, and we never do anything provacative in front of my son if he is home.
I ask nothing about my son's dad. And, I hope my son get's it.
I, and boyfriend, figure that ex is so unhappy, he just spends all day thinking of how he can make me miserable.
Problem is for him = he can't do that anymore. I found my happy, and I'm staying there!