Breakups & Divorce Support Group
Just broke up with someone or in the midst of a difficult divorce? Breaking up is difficult no matter what the circumstances are. They say that time heals all wounds, but sometimes a listening ear or a hug can work wonders for the heart. Whether you need a place to vent, someone to hold you to No Contact, or need advice about what to do, we're here to help.
Why cant i let go of her ? I have tried to as she wanted it didnt work for 2 days. I messed all this up and now want to fix it, She say she dont know if it can be, We would text an call eachother when ever we could, Well i made the disision to let her go like she wants and let me tell you that was the single most hardest thing i ever said to her,When i told her that i felt the hurt in her voice. I quit calling an texting as often an only talk to her maybe 2 times a day but today we texted off an on.
Any advice? Remember i am the reason for her an i splitting up an living apart the last 2 months..
Any advice? Remember i am the reason for her an i splitting up an living apart the last 2 months..
It says you are in the Alcoholism group - if she was an alcoholic go to meetings. If you are, go to meetings. That will keep you busy enough that you give her the space and you the space it sounds like this relationship needs. If it works out later, great. Then you will both be there later. Focus on the problems that got you here and take some space. Its the only way to heal.
I would continue to give her space and work on you resolving within, what you did to cause the split. Continue to work to learn from it and do what you need to in order to heal. But never forget what you did so to not repeat it.
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