Breakups & Divorce Support Group
Just broke up with someone or in the midst of a difficult divorce? Breaking up is difficult no matter what the circumstances are. They say that time heals all wounds, but sometimes a listening ear or a hug can work wonders for the heart. Whether you need a place to vent, someone to hold you to No Contact, or need advice about what to do, we're here to help.
In March will be 2 years since we separated. Divorced only 7 mths. I didnt want this and have so many regrets still. I dream every night of him. I find myself spacing out thinking of ways to make him see me. I know its not good for me but everything that happened seems so wrong. If i could only get him to see what everyone has done. Dr Phil needs to help me get through to him. Sorry just venting. Trying to eat right and move on but still drink when i am down. Tried theripist, said move on. Feel so empty. Empty nest, boys dont call much and here come holidays. He had the big family i loved my family just all for themselves. If you have any other web sites to just get on and chat let me know. Thank you.
Not everybody is willing to put the same amount of work into relationships.
Blaming your self makes your ex sound like a hero and from what you tell he was also looking for comfort. There are people that can go to great lengths to show their selfishness.
Mixed families sound very hard. I fear that a lot. One of my kids is very difficult and I can't imagine what it would be to raise such a grumpy kid with a man that does not have his blood in its veins. I fear that sooo much.
I just finished watching this show on Netflix it's called bonus family. I think you will appreciate it. It is not the best but it talks about the complexities of raising kids from 2 marriages together.
If your husband ever comes back. It is something that does. It depend on you. He will have to figure it on his own.
You instead have to start living your life and prepare yourself to live you again. Once you feel that way your door will open for other good things. Even people.
I'm divorcing my self. Not what I wanted. There are bad days and good days. Bad days are shorter and I have already discovered that when I have good days and when I feel good about myself good things happen and I'm more appreciative of life.
I see a therapist and have a life couch. Both are very impactful in my life. If you tried therapy and did. It like it try another one. Not every therapist is suited for you.
You are too hard on yourself and you forget that you are only a human. You could not save your marriage alone.
Your kids are old enough to understand your reasons to find love. They did not get it and your husband apparently could not bear with the frustration. This is not your fault.
Love yourself again work on you and stop wasting energy in a marriage that for now is more than done.
If you think about it you are not so lovable when you pity yourself.
Great things are about to happe. To you.
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