Breakups & Divorce Support Group
Just broke up with someone or in the midst of a difficult divorce? Breaking up is difficult no matter what the circumstances are. They say that time heals all wounds, but sometimes a listening ear or a hug can work wonders for the heart. Whether you need a place to vent, someone to hold you to No Contact, or need advice about what to do, we're here to help.
Why does it feel like he's playing with my emotions? It's bad enough he chose to leave me alone for Christmas but now to send a picture of him with his family and his wedding ring is removed. What is that all about? He is sitting there with the biggest smile like where's the depressed person he keeps telling me about. Am I really wasting my time hoping things will work out? I think it's time for me to really let go!
Don't participate and give him the power to mess with you.
He wants to be an emotional torturer?
Block him. Divorce him. Refuse to participate.
Unless you want someone messing with you every time life throws a curve.
I don't know how old you are or where you are in life, but I don't have the time or inclination to play ridiculous games.
I had a grown man with a complete inability to communicate throwing things around the garage like a tantrum throwing baby, then sabotaging my computer when that failed to get me riled.
Really? Seriously? I need that crap like a hole in the head.
I forgave my ex and myself, i Just did not tell him that or
will i ever until he makes Amends. It is not required to tell
Them directly, if it will harm you or you dont want to. One
woman i know did tell her ex and now he uses against her.
Depends if they Are truly remorseful and are willing to work
on the relationship With absolutely no third parties and zero
Communications between them otherwise reconciliation will
not work. HUGS
The best advice because it's a way to save your sanity, retain any shred of dignity you have left and you will most likely understand and wish you would have done it sooner in the future, It's also positive and realistic.
The worst advice because it's the one thing we don't want to hear when we are still in the pain of love and unfortunately making the pain go away more often than not has to do with the person who hurt us in the first place. Also it's the worst advice because it's kind of a slap in the face that no longer allows us to daydream and self pacify.
{HUGS }