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Long story short....my ex's sister and her mother have a very bad and estranged relationship. Her mother and sister are angry and upset at how she is acting and how she treated me. They have pretty much told me that I just need to move on and it's prob not gonna work out between her and I.
All my ex wanted was space and time to figure things out....we "broke up"...but it was more for her to figure out her life...which I agreed she should.
Now her sister tells me my ex is angry at her because she got caught checking my ex's cellphone text messages...and her sister saw a message she though indicated she might be seeing somebody and approached my ex. Anyway, my ex has pretty much shut out her sister and her mother.
THEN.....her work partner calls me and tells me everything is fine with my ex and that the door has DEFINITLY NOT CLOSED and that she is still talking about me and loves me. He stresses....SHE JUST NEEDS TIME.
Who do I beleive? Her own familiy...flesh and blood...who knows her but who betrayed her trust....or a coworker who has nothing to lose and who I consider a good friend?
I'm I just hangin on?
All my ex wanted was space and time to figure things out....we "broke up"...but it was more for her to figure out her life...which I agreed she should.
Now her sister tells me my ex is angry at her because she got caught checking my ex's cellphone text messages...and her sister saw a message she though indicated she might be seeing somebody and approached my ex. Anyway, my ex has pretty much shut out her sister and her mother.
THEN.....her work partner calls me and tells me everything is fine with my ex and that the door has DEFINITLY NOT CLOSED and that she is still talking about me and loves me. He stresses....SHE JUST NEEDS TIME.
Who do I beleive? Her own familiy...flesh and blood...who knows her but who betrayed her trust....or a coworker who has nothing to lose and who I consider a good friend?
I'm I just hangin on?
she is your ex for a reason, and if you really looked at why, you most likely would smack yourself and wonder why you would even consider holding on.
Find someone who is available to you as you will be to them.
Forget about the games, from everyone.
open your eyes, ranger. you have to wise up for your own good.
i'm sorry.
I encourage you to give yourself more time to heal. In time you should see that someone who treated you as an option and then wanted to keep you around ''just in case'' is really not a valuable contribution to your life.
Perhaps separate yourself from the family until you are stronger.
Ask your ex directly.