Me and my boyfriend have been together for a year, but since day one it has been constant fighting and jelousy. I had to stop seeing guy friends, limit phone call time and allow him to look through my phone facenook email ect. Iv told him this needs to stop and he is working on it but it has been a year and we havent gotten much better. I always threaten to leave and then he says im giving up, so when is enough enough? How long am I supposed to wait to see a change, or will a change never come? He is a sweet boyfiend he just has anger issues. We just moved in together so I have no where else to go. Now he has bought a new couch, tv, table a few maybe 2 or 3, thousands of dollars in dept for our home, so if i just go he will be left with everything and I will feel guilty. I dont know if I should give it more time and see what happens or throw my hands in the air and start moving on. And if so how can you move on from someone you live with? I know there are people who have been married/ in a relationship with people for 5, 10, 20 years and have had to give all of it up. How do you do it, and how do you know whens the right time? I still love him, im just sooooo tired of the fighting and controlling nature. I just dont know what to do.