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Hello everone. My move went well....but my truck blow the engine in Texas, so now I have no car.
Now for the "what the hell" part. My ex has "friended" ALL of my family on another social site. They are all cousins, with whom I had lost contact with untl a few months ago. My ex as never met any of them and had bearly spoken to any of them on line. About a month before we broke up, my ex started a "on line fight" with her family, my family and me. We all "de-friended" each other and I haven't spoken to any of them since. However, now she is chummy with all of them angain and I'm still out of tuch with them. So, what the hell dose that mean??????Why would she feel the the need to do that????
Now for the "what the hell" part. My ex has "friended" ALL of my family on another social site. They are all cousins, with whom I had lost contact with untl a few months ago. My ex as never met any of them and had bearly spoken to any of them on line. About a month before we broke up, my ex started a "on line fight" with her family, my family and me. We all "de-friended" each other and I haven't spoken to any of them since. However, now she is chummy with all of them angain and I'm still out of tuch with them. So, what the hell dose that mean??????Why would she feel the the need to do that????
shantellew
She can't let it go and its her only way to keep the drama going. Some people get so desperate to not cut ties completely they will go to any lengths. Even if she is the one who initiated the break up, I betcha money its left a hole and she's filling it with drama from your relationship any way she can.
deleted_user
drama takes more than one to be drama. personally, i would just remove myself from those social networking sites. they are far more trouble than they are worth in my opinion.
panda68
Thank you both. I am in total agrement with both of you. It is sad that I will loss my family all over again.
deleted_user
I am convinced it is a form of control. Try not to get sucked into it or it will tear you apart. When breakups happen, you lose friends and sometimes family. It's heartbreaking but it is the reality. No reaction to this type of behavior is the best revenge...lol
panda68
Thank you puppyfeet. The whole relationship was truely controlling, so I think you have right idea there.
DMM1964
He is trying to still control you through your family.... Just my opinion
deleted_user
DMM, I think Panda is the he and the ex is the she. :)
DMM1964
OOooops, sorry about the mix up... it just shows a private profile on my end, either way it is a control issue, My Ex Wife does the same thing and she even tries to friend my girlfriend on Facebook. It is all her way of still trying to control my life even after being divorced for over 2 1/2 years.
LucilleM
It sounds like your ex can't let go. You know you can still be part of the family social network and block your ex from seeing anything about you. He won't even know you are on. There are lots of features that allows you to control what anyone can see. For example I don't allow anyone to see a list of my friends and I only allow certain pics to be seen by friends only and the rest I keep private. And if some people become problematic I delete them from my feed file so I don't have to read anything about them and if it really annoys me I just block them completely.
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