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My stbx just called me at work. I told her I can't. I didn't want to talk to her but she insisted.
She wants to see my new apartment before the kids can sleep over. She wants to inspect if it is suitable for the kids. I told she can't see my place because of the RO. Again, she uses the RO when it is convenient for her. She says she will take me to court again to make sure the kids do not stay overnite with me.
She also asked me if I could watch the kids on Saturday while she goes out, probably with her boyfriend. I said no, I already have plans. She got mad at me and hang up the phone.
What is wrong with her?
She keeps playing these games and I do not want to play.
She wants to see my new apartment before the kids can sleep over. She wants to inspect if it is suitable for the kids. I told she can't see my place because of the RO. Again, she uses the RO when it is convenient for her. She says she will take me to court again to make sure the kids do not stay overnite with me.
She also asked me if I could watch the kids on Saturday while she goes out, probably with her boyfriend. I said no, I already have plans. She got mad at me and hang up the phone.
What is wrong with her?
She keeps playing these games and I do not want to play.
I can pick-up and drop-off my kids curbside only.
Taping her talking to me will do no good, because she can do that and not get in trouble. If I respond then I will get in trouble.
There is an RO against you, yet she wants to come over to your apartment? Do NOT let her. Your best bet is to follow the RO to a "t" to ensure you are not doing anything at all that she can turn around and nail you for.
Document, document, document. Keep track of everything - note what she says to you, the dates and times, and anything else that could be important info to keep track of.
As for recording her, I believe most states have the same law that a person cannot be recorded unless they give their consent which also must be recorded.