I have hesitated with this post but got to say it. I am so frustrated with ladies here being treated like trash, used, abused, belittled, when I would be thankful for a woman like that. Guys on here? Similar to me, get run over and treat like crap when you are a good man. Is it a thing where we attract the wrong type of person and become attracted to them as well? Or like me have done it more than once and get with the wrong one? I know love can be blind but come on! It irritates the Heck out of me and saddens me when I read stuff from good people and wonder what the Heck is in their spouses mind? And seriously, many women I see postings from? I wish had a lady like that. Don't get me wrong, I mean that as a compliment not to be to forward, and I am sure some of you ladies can agree there are posts from men that make you think why couldn't I have that dedication, love, commitment. Why deal with this crap when there are men or women out there that deal with the same and want the same? Do we inherently fall into a trap and accept things, even if not right? Do the best as can even if being wronged? Then escape our follies to return to a similar situation, or get lucky and find someone that is right and maybe shares similar experience with the wrong, or simply just the right one?

Sorry, venting. I just wish the people here that suffer could have met up with other people that have as similar positive vs the negative. I wish to you all you find the right person when you're ready and in the meantime focus on yourself (and children if involved).