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What is an idiot?

diemjs
diemjs
An idiot is a man who has written over 100 bounced checks since the 1st of Oct. An idiot is a man who bounced his house payment, again. An idiot is a man whose bank account has a balance of -$3,054.00! An idiot is a man who VOLUNTEERS for the local fire department, when he should be out there looking for another paying job! An idiot is a man who doesn't support his children, because he is too busy VOLUNTEERING for the fire department!!

I could go on about this idiot man, but I won't. It would take too long:)

Any other idiots out there?
TSand
TSand
I won't mention a certain woman who spent 30,000 dollars in one month. She bounced a few, oh my yes. Both males and females are capable of craziness.
deleted_user
deleted_user
There is one in FL who would rather engage in online affairs than have the best damn women he will ever know...
deleted_user
deleted_user
i'm so sorry, i hope that you and the children are doing ok financially. boy what an irresponsible man. and why does the bank keep letting him do this. well girl, as in many situations, your going to have to pull you and the kids through this, and i'm sure you will. your stong. (((HUGS TO YOU)))
deleted_user
deleted_user
Me, for loving that woman when she no longer loved me, and I didn't see it.
veeachjay
veeachjay
I'm married to a similar idiot. He's written many bad checks over the years. His idea of balancing a checkbook is write the checks first, figure out how to get the money in the bank second. I've about had it with his games, but feel like if I leave him, I'll still be dealing with them (like you are). Hope things improve for you!
deleted_user
deleted_user
There's a certain little boy in a man's body that I know.
He's an idiot.
He blew all kinds of money on stupid things like a big screen TV shortly before his car was repossessed.
deleted_user
deleted_user
oh, today he tels me that he has DECIDED (at the age of 47) to be a full-time college student and live on student aid. He controlled all of our money from our business and now he wants to be a full-time student for 4 YEARS? Add that to all of his other bonehead moves that elft us with nothing but debt and he is certifiably a TOTAL IDIOT.
solongbye
solongbye
An idiot is a man that thinks it is ok to have his children around xcons and drug addicts. He'll be the first one to blame the mother if the children grow up and have any issues.
deleted_user
deleted_user
MY EX
deleted_user
deleted_user
I know one of those. Oh yes...yes I sure do. But, he looks a lil less like one after seeing some of the responses in here.
deleted_user
deleted_user
I know a certain big idiot who only looks after himself, expensive holidays,clothes,dining out with whoever he is taking out,no expense spared.This big idiot is going through divorce, and will not other her anything. So that would make him a selfish big idiot.
deleted_user
deleted_user
I used to have an idiot..... who said and did all the right things, only when I was looking.

I traded him in for my self respect.....
good trade.
deleted_user
deleted_user
Mine left me with several bounced checks that I am now trying to clear up.
javabean4
javabean4
I know of one who hooks up with women for a looking for sex website and thinks nothing wrong about it.
deleted_user
deleted_user
I got you all beat!! My idiot has spent over $150,000 in 2 months. He only makes $50k a year and owes $1,000 a month child support. You do the math. After taxes he has about $20,000 a yr to live off of. But for loving him as much as I did and putting up with all the hell I did.....I was the IDIOT!! NO MORE. After tonight....I am IDIOT FREE!!!
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