Sorry to hear about your situation - that can't be easy.

I know this isn't what you want to hear, but my advice would be to take the high road if you can.

Wish I could help ya. I only have "words' for women who persue married men.

Wow, it is always so easy to come up with names for the OW, but OM...this requires thought for me. Nothing but evil, deceitful, and adulterous. He is like a virus; no medicine can cure him, just moves from victim to victim.

I agree with Arctic. Try to take the high road.

I'm not saying I could do it, but I would try.

I;m from the south and my grandparent would always use the name "Jody". I never knew who "Jody" was until I heard the old blues song about how "Jody's got your girl and gone".

There was also a term used where they called the man "the Backdoor Santa". Refering to the husband walking out the front door and the other man coming in the back door with the goodies and treats.

A woman who goes after a married man is call "the cleanup woman". Cleaning up what the other woman drops.

But you didn't really ask any of that did you?

I'd say "Hello, I'm bridgett's husband, summerdad" nice to meet you...

Untrustworthy comes to mind, so does pathetic but "a disappointment as a human being" sums it up better.

Taking the high road is no fun.

I just haven't felt this much hate towards one person.

No good, dirty rotten, slime bag, mother fockin', son of a bitch, next in line for the shot, scum sucking, bastard.

We call the other woman a whore,,, so what would be wrong with man-whore?

I'm with Kelly here. Introduce yourself as Bridget's husband. Take the high road, you're better than that. He's an arse. You know it, evreyone on here knows it, and if you dont cause a scene and just be the nice man you are, he'll know it too! Good luck. Heather x

If you show him your hate and disgust, you are stooping down to his level.

You know you are better than that.

Although the high road may be difficult, it is the right thing to do.

Nothing good.....

Call him "An opportunistic fuck"

Or just laugh at both at them since it's going to crumble down the road. Not the best of circumstances to meet upon.

In my book


a corpse..