Breakups & Divorce Support Group
Just broke up with someone or in the midst of a difficult divorce? Breaking up is difficult no matter what the circumstances are. They say that time heals all wounds, but sometimes a listening ear or a hug can work wonders for the heart. Whether you need a place to vent, someone to hold you to No Contact, or need advice about what to do, we're here to help.
He's so ignorant and insistent on still being in control after I did not bring his son to the house of strangers like he wanted me to he demanded that I bring his son to the door because he was going to have his brother come and get him at 12 o'clock at night when I was willing to bring his son to him at 10 as long as he was there from work he got paid today he did not give me any money for my son or the money that he owed me so I decided that I will give him two more pays to see if he gives me anything and if he doesn't I want to file child support for my son because I have taken care of him all of his life when my son is 3 years old and he is only worked for half of his life I don't want him to think that he still has control and can just pop up at my house not on schedule demanding his son although I let him go this time it was only because I didn't have to have any contact with him his brother came and got him but I foresee this being a long difficult Road ahead
To help you get a safety plan in place for you
and your baby. You need some guidelines and
Structure to keep your little one safe. Dropping
Him off into unknown hands is not cool. You Are
the sane rational one KEEP YOUR BABY SAFE .
If he pays no child support thats On him and
his consequences and actions. That is not your
job to make him man up and Act like a mature
rational human being, that is his alone and the
Legal system.
Dont take On others problems as your own.
We all have enough we need help with. HUGS
I'm CERTAIN it's not dropping your child off with someone that you don't know. You have a legal obligation to watch your child, and when you're not directly taking care of them, to hand them off to a Specific agency/ person that will then be in charge of watching them (this is why kindergartners aren't allowed to just walk out of school...the school is legally obligated to watch them).
Beyond that, there are limits to when/how transfers should happen. Probably fine to drop off a teenager at midnight (aka dinner time for teens) although that depends on the teen, if it's a school night, and the family situation; but NOT okay for a 3 year old.
Transfers generally take place sometime 8am to 8pm. There's always exceptions...but they're exceptions (traveling out of town and getting an early start, an unexpectedly late return).