Breakups & Divorce Support Group
Just broke up with someone or in the midst of a difficult divorce? Breaking up is difficult no matter what the circumstances are. They say that time heals all wounds, but sometimes a listening ear or a hug can work wonders for the heart. Whether you need a place to vent, someone to hold you to No Contact, or need advice about what to do, we're here to help.
So yesterday i am at work thinking todays a normal day. I get a text around 2pm from my "bf" asking what time i will be home. I said idk why? He tells me he is in the process of moving his stuff out. WOW. I mean what a blind sided punch to the face. I was like wtf are u talking about? After the whole 9 yards of bullshit about him waiting til he went back to work and just taking some clothes and nothing else and wanting to stay together. All these lies. He just decided to move today???? And his defense was "i never said that" WHAT THE FUCK? Of course u said all that. i was standing right there when he said he wanted things to work with us. he wanted to save money for OUR future. WHAT A LIAR. I mean i have seen cowards before but this is my all time most cowardly act someone has pulled. if he wanted to leave he could have been honset about it. Then he tells me "its gonna be a long lonely life for you cheryl". WTF does that mean? excuse me? If anything the road will be long and lonely for you you selfish asshole bastard. No one will cater to you the way i did. I couldnt believe my ears. And then he was moving his things out with his friend while i stood there crying and saying things like...So when were u going to tell me joey? Did you tell your friends before you were going to tell me? He basically ignored me. Was laughing and joking with his buddy as if it was just all good. Who the fuck is this guy? Seriously. I thought i was on another planet. This is the most outrageous situation i have ever been in. 4 years washed down the toilet. I know this is all for the best. but it doesnt feel good right now. I feel awful. I am crying. I just want to crawl into bed and sleep and not deal with the world.
If he would have stayed it would have been against his will and he would have treated you in such a manner that you do not deserve. You deserve
better and I am wishing you comforting healing Energy and Loving Light to fill that void.
They key now is to fill the void with healthy nurturing Self Love. Select positive affirmations to fill your thoughts to nurture yourself back to
a happy healthy state.
The Universe set the wheels in motion for this to occur because you were not in alignment (being in this relationship) to begin your
new journey of self adventure and all that is exciting that comes along with this The Universe knows that you deserved more Cheryl and
it is just waiting for you to Be In Agreement with its wishes for your future.
Healing Light and Love!
oshe
I thought this was what you wanted. You laid down some ground rules, you weren't going to cater to him, enable him and it was all up to him.
PS you are not sad because he left, you are sad because your happily ever after dream didn't come true. Instead of finding a new leading man to make our dream come true, make the dream come true by yourself.