Breakups & Divorce Support Group
Just broke up with someone or in the midst of a difficult divorce? Breaking up is difficult no matter what the circumstances are. They say that time heals all wounds, but sometimes a listening ear or a hug can work wonders for the heart. Whether you need a place to vent, someone to hold you to No Contact, or need advice about what to do, we're here to help.
leaving his house now. He had it all ready for me. We loaded everything up. We chatted about updates on every thing, kids and what not. Then he gives me the best tightest hug. And I said something about how it sucks this had to happen. He’s all, you getting your stuff. I said no the reason why I had to. And he said the stupid “it is what it is.” I said it didn’t have to be this way and he was all well I think so, I don’t regret anything but maybe another time or place it would have worked. The resignation in his countence was so heartbreaking. If he was pissed then there would be some emotion. There was just none. I’m very sad. In my 44 years no man made me feel the way he did. He was everything I could possibly want in a man. I guess I was not for that him. I’m just the kind of sad that can’t even cry.
Your heart is like an open sore right now-every memory or thought about him is like salt on the
wound. Hang on girl- we ALL have been there.I am there too. Lets us know life is surely not perfect
but it is actual.Try to find some physical like going to the gym to take your emotions out there but in
a positive way. Our hearts were not meant for this crap- but you have 2 see the reality of the other
side-this guy wasn;t really the one for you and if he is not at this time.He is also on his life journey trying
to figure it all out....Get a way to release your anguish because if you don't the residue stores within you.
That shit sucks.Keep trying to push push pass,that feeling comes push pass it, okay you made it keep
telling yourself, okay I made it through breakfast, made it through this and that , keep letting yourself
know that You are there for You.The most profound relationship you will EVER have is with yourself
and I know the pain is GREAT, its like a Mountain every day climbing the shit to get to the top and
whats at the top Pain- but let me tell you- you will feel 100 times better at the top of that mountain
(the mountain is your everyday routines and all the stuff you need to do).You will feel better that you
forced and pushed yourself we are here to help s0 push push Push positive vibes, hugs so sorry but
pamper yourself, and such,