Breakups & Divorce Support Group
Just broke up with someone or in the midst of a difficult divorce? Breaking up is difficult no matter what the circumstances are. They say that time heals all wounds, but sometimes a listening ear or a hug can work wonders for the heart. Whether you need a place to vent, someone to hold you to No Contact, or need advice about what to do, we're here to help.
I knew my wife in high school. We didn't talk for a few years then she found me on facebook. We started talking. She had a son from a previous relationship. We started dating. We moved into an apartment. We bought a house. We got married. I wanted her and my new step son to have a good life so I joined the Marine Corps and worked in the communication field. We got stationed at Camp Pendleton. My four years was almost over, she wanted to stay in Southern California so I studied for and got 3 different IT certifications. I got a job that made enough money for us to stay in Souther California. We bought a house.
We sent my step son to Florida to spend time with his dad for the summer, like we had every year since we got to California. She went with him for a week. I was supposed to pick her up on Saturday. She texted me on Friday morning to tell me that she wasn't happy, and that her and my step son would be staying in Florida.
We never argued. I don't drink. I dont stay out. I made her and my step son the center of my world, and she left me so that she could get back together with the biological dad who cheated on her when they were together and just got out of rehab a year and a half ago.
I'm heartbroken. I drink almost every night now. Last night I thought about hanging myself. I'm 6'1" and my weight has dropped to 148 lbs. I'm lost. I don't know what to do. I'm desperate. I just need someone to talk to. I just need someone that understands.
That sounds like a really difficult situation but please don’t think of self harm. I know it seems impossible, but day by day, things will get better. Harming yourself is a permanent solution to a short term problem. Where you just push your pain onto those around you.
Give your partner some time. The grass often seems greener and everyone makes mistakes. Often those mistakes being an internal problem, with very little to do with those they love. Rarely done to cause pain.
Try to communicate with her.
But also find a friend in real life.
Sounds like you need not to be alone.
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Please message me if you need someone to talk to but please know you are not alone. Just take each hour as it comes and make it to the next one. Hugs
In times lke these you have to reach out and get help. Please contact a counselor b/c you need to be able to talk and let the counselor be that support you need. Push yourself right now to reach out to others that can help.
I was at that place about 4 years ago I felt so miserable and didnt think I would be able to get through. Contact Crisis Hotline 24/7 937 224-4646
I'ts a journey but I believe that your true purpose is still waiting for you. Dont give up!