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Msdee84
Msdee84
I love him very much so you would THINK that I am just very happy; well I'm not, I'm also very scared. How do you REALLY RESOLVE a situation so it doesn't keep coming back?

I don't want to live in the past. I want to love him full-heartedly and move on with our future.
deleted_user
deleted_user
how?

implement the opposite situation and stick to it. but, make sure the situation that you implement is good for both of you. it isn't just about you.
oOoREBoOo
oOoREBoOo
Communication. I think you should ask him the same question you asked us. You both work this out, that's the partnership.
deleted_user
deleted_user
Women always want to talk more and men always think their women talk too much. Then they complain about communication.

Whatever it is that keeps coming up, you need to ignore it now.

Wait and convince him to go to a marriage councilor. Then bring it up and leave it in the open.

People... You have to prep them for things they don't want to hear! Lol, no one wants to hear anything negative about themselves.

Why do you think fat women get mad when you tell them they are fat?
Let the doctor tell them and it's a whole different story.
Msdee84
Msdee84
See...I thought communication was KEY but communication is what our MAIN challenge is all about. You can not communicate with someone that doesn't want to communicate...or can you??