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diemjs 02/05/2008

That PMS garbage I was spewing the other day? Well, today I am more mad than anything and I am going to tell you all about it!

I am SO angry that I had so much of my time and energy wasted on the thought of that *&(*&%$!!!
Why should he get ANY of my powers? Because of PMS?? It is a good excuse, and it does make us women, well, moody, but how dare he take my energy and time? It was a wasted weekend, and then some, thinking and feeling bad for him! He is the one who should be feeling bad! I didnt do anything wrong!!! All Im doing is trying to survive with the little I have, and I have so little because of him!

So, to HELL with him! To the future I go!

Thanks, I feel better:)

deleted_user 02/05/2008

Glad you feel better. Sometimes a little righteous anger is just what you need. Your weekend was spent in negative energy, but it is all part of the process, so don't be too hard on yourself.

Onward and upward! Good for you.

deleted_user 02/05/2008

I think that one of the beautiful parts about life is that even if you screw up one day, as long as you have breath in your lungs and life in ya, you get to try again.

I think I posted it somewhere else on the boards but being able to forgive and move forward is a powerful tool. Now if I can just get that tool to work on the ex wife.

Well, still breath in my lungs...

Mark

deleted_user 02/05/2008

One day our xes will NOT take up space in our minds...poof!!! Wouldn't it be nice to have all the court hearings, etc. behind us???

deleted_user 02/05/2008

For me, all the court stuff is over for now. Maybe the harder part of living is here because I still have to coordinate the children stuff with her which means almost daily communication.

I wish I could just wave the magic wand and she would disappear. But she is the mother of our four children and I need to learn how to deal with her and show the children I am strong (beating my chest as I write this).

But I still like that whole "poof" idea.

Mark

deleted_user 02/05/2008

I just had a flash back to the stbx can you still call it PMS when it lasts all month?

deleted_user 02/05/2008

Mine will be "poofed" because he has NOTHING to do with our children. Since he's a drug addict and his gf is a drug addict, it will be a blessing.

deleted_user 02/05/2008

OK then. Note to self, stay away from diemjs.

Maybe if we play dead she will go away happy!?!

Just kidding. Glad you got that out of your system.

diemjs 02/05/2008

Wick, nope, dont think it qulifies as PMS for a whole month, I think that is what you call a bitch! (sorry)
I wish mine would disappear, too! Poof! Gone in 60 seconds! But, i too, have two small children that I have to deal with with him. Some day...some day...some day...POOF!

diemjs 02/05/2008

Funny Straw!! I liked that one!

deleted_user 02/05/2008

You know thats what I thought Di but she would never believe and got really upset when I told her my diagnosis.

diemjs 02/05/2008

Well, Wick, you can tell her from me to keep dreaming! If it were PMS for a month, dont you think all of us women would be using that excuse all the time?!?! Ask her if there is other life on her planet!!! LOL

deleted_user 02/05/2008

Bravo!!!!! Wohoooo....I say we make PMS last all month long!!! Maybe we can have a PMS club? Feels better already..lol...I am happy for you to find a good channel to vent...PMS or else!
Big hug
S

deleted_user 02/05/2008

Um, I'm going to take a pass on the PMS stuff. But in the meantime, I found this really cool pair of red slippers. I just put them on and found the directions...

"Click heels together three times while chanting, 'there's no place like home.'"

Got as far as the heel clicking part then tripped and fell down. Damn high heals!

Mark

deleted_user 02/05/2008

I'm starting to think that the future holds more excitement than it used to...I get to do it all on my own and I am in charge and don't have to check in with anyone. I love being independent.

deleted_user 02/05/2008

Thx for that post diemjs I needed to read that right now.

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