Breakups & Divorce Support Group
Just broke up with someone or in the midst of a difficult divorce? Breaking up is difficult no matter what the circumstances are. They say that time heals all wounds, but sometimes a listening ear or a hug can work wonders for the heart. Whether you need a place to vent, someone to hold you to No Contact, or need advice about what to do, we're here to help.
Why after seven months, I see her for a few moments through the door of a conference room, I walk away and get down the hall. She comes of the room and stands in the hall and looks at me.
Why is my heart in my throat? Why am i in a cold sweat? I'm clearly not over her.
Is over. Even then if you have children keep it to limited
No contact. No personal chit chat, the business at hand
Only. Email or text, no phone calls unless really needed.
During my separation i just numbed up toward him. It Was
The only way i could cope. Now i am divorced And i am
total no contact. It took me 18 months to detach From him.
I really don't know what i will do when i see Him again. I
am fine when i pass my old house if he is at Home or not,
If his GF's car is there it is a stab directly Into my heart. She
is in my house, kitchen and bed.
Thankfully i moved out of town and only go back once in
awhile. His GF has her own house and two teens, it all still
hurts.
Your grief is very real too, honor it and let it come. Time
Takes time and there is no rushing it and all that comes
With it. Rejection, betrayal, hurt and pain plus much more.
Often as you grieve there will be many uncomfortable intense
feelings and emotions that can create anxiety. My marriage had
Been bad for 12 years before the divorce and it had gotten toxic,
Thats not Easy to heal from nor the wounds. HUGS
for what its worth she likely will reflect on your chance meeting as well, and may draw on the good times - we often think only one mourns the loss in relationships
these are not moments of weakness, but moments of growth and moving forward