Breakups & Divorce Support Group

Just broke up with someone or in the midst of a difficult divorce? Breaking up is difficult no matter what the circumstances are. They say that time heals all wounds, but sometimes a listening ear or a hug can work wonders for the heart. Whether you need a place to vent, someone to hold you to No Contact, or need advice about what to do, we're here to help.

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Chrisv111 05/19/2018

it’s like all week I’m working and even then it’s very hard not to want my wife and kids with me but on the weekends I’m stuck in my head wondering with whom or where they are and wat ima do alone I don’t like being at home cuz all the memories of the past 12yrs and being gone all day helps and on my days off I’m hurting even more it seems I don’t have friends or family to call I really am all alone and don’t see an end in sight it seems like these past 6 months haven’t gotten any easier and she will occasionally show hope and interest but that just reinforce my feelings about her and lack of life without them I really don’t know wat to do she don’t even mention divorce just that we’re separated and I wonder if I file will I get a sense of relief or just make myself feel worse for giving up on them

cautiously.optimistic 05/19/2018

100% same boat!!!
We have been separated for 2 months In different households.
This is our 3rd year of going through this.
Just last night I had the strongest feeling yet of giving her an ultimatum.
I believe she is away this weekend but I can’t do anything about it anymore.
She says she still cares about me but just needs this time....
This sucks doesn’t it?!?!?
Hopefully life turns for the positive for all of us on here soon my friend!!
Best of luck!!

Charmcity88 05/19/2018

This made my stomach hurt. Its like looking in a mirror. When u spend so much time with a person you don't even know where to begin Alone.... Everything I did revolved around her and now she left and its like wth is ur life now? Everything I liked to do I involved her some how someway. The worst os knowing she is fine enjoying herself and I'm here miserable Alone. Hope this goes away fast...

estranged78 05/19/2018

Thank you friends for sharing your story., the moral support & letting me know, I am not the only victim.

I wish you all well & may peace prevail. Pls keep in touch.

Chrisv111 05/19/2018

Yes it’s very hard like charmcity88 said everything I did revolves around her and now she is living and I’m just existing I don’t even know where to start I don’t even wanna see anything or go anywhere we shared memories which is everything and everywhere in town and this time thing really sucks waiting to find out if I’m good enough is hard to swallow I hate my life right now

Bee3 05/19/2018

I don't know what your circumstances are, but maybe separation was for the sake of the children. I am considering separating just because my husband has made it impossible to parent. I try, but we don't agree on so many things. I'm constantly told by him that I am the problem. I figure if I leave and it's better, then I can accept it. I hope she can see you miss family and unity.

Chrisv111 05/19/2018

Bee3 the reason at hand has changed a few times since the star of our separation 6 months ago it’s very complicated I could write a book about it but as of now I been blocked from calling and seem to be making things worse out of desperation but now I have no choice but to sit and hope things fix them selves or I get over it I’m just lost at this point I really have no clue what to do or how to do it thanks for your words I hope things work out for the best with you and yours

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