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So, I'm really sick to death of hearing about Valentine's Day this year... the last time I expressed any love for the cheater was last year on Valentine's Day.
So, i just got home from school & feeling not too bad & thinking of things I can do tomorrow with my daughter to ease getting through the day when there's a knock on my door. I answer to a delivery guy... he had a Valentine's Day basket with a teddy bear delivered to our daughter... I know, I know... all of you will say that's really nice that he did that but he's never done that before, not even last year even though we were separated then & he didn't see our daughter on VDay.
It just seems like he sticks the knife in even deeper & twists a little harder at times... he would've done things like that for me not so long ago... & then I start thinking what he has done for HER for VDay.....
Just when I think I'm getting past things, there is another frigging bump!!!
I can't wait for March!
Dont get me wrong... I'm thankful he is good with our daughter but FUCK!!!
So, i just got home from school & feeling not too bad & thinking of things I can do tomorrow with my daughter to ease getting through the day when there's a knock on my door. I answer to a delivery guy... he had a Valentine's Day basket with a teddy bear delivered to our daughter... I know, I know... all of you will say that's really nice that he did that but he's never done that before, not even last year even though we were separated then & he didn't see our daughter on VDay.
It just seems like he sticks the knife in even deeper & twists a little harder at times... he would've done things like that for me not so long ago... & then I start thinking what he has done for HER for VDay.....
Just when I think I'm getting past things, there is another frigging bump!!!
I can't wait for March!
Dont get me wrong... I'm thankful he is good with our daughter but FUCK!!!
However just remember Valentines day isn't about having a significant other in your life. Its about the love in your life. So whether that be from your children, your family, friends, co-workers, DS friends, even your pets you are surrounded by love. We all are. Reflect on that and be thankful for the love that is around you.
Big hugs!!! Julie :)