Breakups & Divorce Support Group
Just broke up with someone or in the midst of a difficult divorce? Breaking up is difficult no matter what the circumstances are. They say that time heals all wounds, but sometimes a listening ear or a hug can work wonders for the heart. Whether you need a place to vent, someone to hold you to No Contact, or need advice about what to do, we're here to help.
So this Friday, May 31st, will mark 2 months since my 6 year relationsjip came to an end. I feel like I'm doing a lot better since my first post on here, but i do still struggle on the weekends. I no longer contact my ex, he's been the one contacting me. Well actually all he does is text me once a week and usually just to say "HI" and to tell me he's been thinking about me. He never asks how i'm doing. Doesn't ask anything about my life. On May 20th it would've been 7 years for us, surprisingly i wasn't sad about it. I think being at work helped me not think too much about it. Of course i knew I wouldn't hear from him on that day, but he did text me the next day just to say that he was thinking on me on our "anniversary" and hoped i was having a good week so far.
Honestly it's starting to piss me off that he only texts me this stuff. Even when i try to keep the conversation going he gets distant again. That pisses me off!!! I've done enough research to realize what it is that he's doing and that pisses me off even more! He's keeping me as his "blanket". I can't believe who he's turned into! I wonder if i ever really knew him! I've made up my mind now that if he texts me again, and I'm sure he will, I'm NOT going to reply!! I need to move on, and everytime I start to get used to not hearing from him, he ends up texting and i always end up breaking my NC.
I know that me answering his texts is just making him feel better about the break up because he thinks he still has me...f**k that! I'm not longer sad i'm just angry at how someone i thought loved me can treat me like this!! I'm not going to allow it anymore! He needs to know how it feels to really not have me in his life, and the only way to do that is to never respond to him again!
This post is kinda pointlee but I just needed to vent and get my feelings out. Has anyone had an ex who did this to them? They text you, but don't want to see you? That's what hurts too, he tells me he supposedly misses me, but doesnt ever ask to see me! If i really missed someone i would ask to see them, so there is another thing he's lying to me about!! I hate guys!! LOL not all, but most who play woman the way my ex has!!
Never break NC. Dont be weak.
if they did wrong they have to change... words dont make them change.
Change takes time...
Work on yourself and change yourself, find the better happier you.