Breakups & Divorce Support Group
Just broke up with someone or in the midst of a difficult divorce? Breaking up is difficult no matter what the circumstances are. They say that time heals all wounds, but sometimes a listening ear or a hug can work wonders for the heart. Whether you need a place to vent, someone to hold you to No Contact, or need advice about what to do, we're here to help.
Do you ever feel like things will never change, because you are just too busy to do anything about them? I mean people always say to give yourself some time to heal, right? But what if you just don't have the time to do so? What if taking that time to heal messed up your life even more? What if some people never get the chance to rest?
You have to take those times when you are doing something mindless, and tune into yourself. Little bits of time that add up to a collective.
I hope I don't confuse "time to heal" with allowing my life to stagnate. I don't want to watch shit pass by because I'm still "healing".
Sometimes, I wonder what "healing" even means in this context anymore. The concept of healing gets passed around here more than a joint at a Grateful Dead concert and I frankly wonder what it even means sometimes.
You, however, are worth the trade off......you need a vacation.
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This is good and bad. I will have to process this some day.
Maybe when I am stronger and more able to handle it, the break will come.
Wake up, do stuff, day is shot to hell, go to sleep, wake up, start over.
You gotta squeeze in those ME times. Meditate, sleep, eat, listen to music, cry, take a hot bath. Whatever floats your boat, you have to schedule in YOU. Everything else will have to wait.
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