Breakups & Divorce Support Group
Just broke up with someone or in the midst of a difficult divorce? Breaking up is difficult no matter what the circumstances are. They say that time heals all wounds, but sometimes a listening ear or a hug can work wonders for the heart. Whether you need a place to vent, someone to hold you to No Contact, or need advice about what to do, we're here to help.
My wife and I have been separated for 4 months and she filed for divorce a month ago. We have not spoken since the day she moved out. No one can figure that one out. She has told a mutual friend that she can't "deal" with my depression. Today is our 9th anniversary and I'm really just numb. I took off my wedding ring a couple of months ago. The people around me tell me I should hate her but I don't. I hate what she has done and know we could never be back together but I don't hate her.
I think that not having hate for the ex, made it easier for me to heal.
Hugs, grib!
You need to continue to do what is good for you and your mental health. I understand the numb feeling because I too suffer from clinical depression.
Good luck on your road to recovery.