Breakups & Divorce Support Group

Just broke up with someone or in the midst of a difficult divorce? Breaking up is difficult no matter what the circumstances are. They say that time heals all wounds, but sometimes a listening ear or a hug can work wonders for the heart. Whether you need a place to vent, someone to hold you to No Contact, or need advice about what to do, we're here to help.

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HeaveToo 01/02/2009

I would like to thank all of you for being here. I have learned that women go through the same pain as some of us guys do. Without some of the input of the women on here I would probably have remained slightly jaded towards women because of my life experiences. I have learned that people are all individuals and you can't judge a group of people based on what has happened to you in the past, even if it was a frequent event.

The women on here have given me hope that I will eventually find the right person and re-mary and stay married for the rest of my life.

Thank you ladies so much for being here and teaching us guys these lessons.

deleted_user 01/02/2009

Awwwww. What a sweetie.

pemdcat 01/02/2009

AMEN, Heave, the ladies here share their emotions, their hearts, their pain. We learn from each other that we are in the same boat just on different seas......*tipping hat to the ladies* Thank You DS Ladies....AJJ

deleted_user 01/02/2009

LOVE YOU HEAVE...

solongbye 01/02/2009

Thanks Heave we needed a nice thread today...

deleted_user 01/02/2009

It's great that you are not bitter!!! Yeah keep the hope.

deleted_user 01/02/2009

I totally agree. I have learned a lot from you all.

I may not be able fix this mess, but I think I understand it better, so that is a start.

lifeisgood2me 01/02/2009

Would say this goes both ways. I too have learned a lot about how men think and feel. We're all human and have feelings, bottom line. Thanks for this post.

deleted_user 01/02/2009

Thank you heave! You are a sweetie...

deleted_user 01/02/2009

Thanks Heave that means a great deal to me. HUGS

deleted_user 01/02/2009

I nominate Z and Kaymcdawg for ladies of the year...

HeaveToo 01/02/2009

I want to add that most of the ladies on here have a heart of gold. It seems that a lot of them were in the same situation that I was with my ex and they, like me, took their marriages seriously, unlike our exes!

deleted_user 01/02/2009

(((((((((((((heave))))))))))))) Happy New Year! You rock!

deleted_user 01/02/2009

High five!!! Are you taking applications? wink wink

I am sure any lady in the world would be very lucky to have a charming, cute, smart, sexy, handsome, good looking, fun, upbeat, and all the good only a pirate like you have to offer. The get married again is not appealing to me, I want to be able to go in and out as I please of any relationship and stay only by choice. Not keen about the div process. Once is enough to me, really. Not meaning I would not like someone as special as YOU (wink wink), but marriage is out of the question here. Just because it is not fair, takes 1 paper to get married, and many papers, lawyers and crap from the ex to get divorced. So, I am passing on that one. Big hug

mkcoleman 01/02/2009

That was really sweet, thanks Heave! (((((((HUG)))))))

deleted_user 01/02/2009

Here here to heave.

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