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HeaveToo 09/17/2008

Hrm....To have one more rum and coke or not. I am not drunk, barely buzzed. I don't have to be at work until 6 pm tomorrow.

I can't decide to drink one more or not! Any suggestions?

deleted_user 09/17/2008

Buzzes are good. Drunk, not so good?

deleted_user 09/17/2008

Have another. I'll have one with you.

HeaveToo 09/17/2008

I am going to have to make a run to the Alphabet store for this weekend. If I am sailing off in a fleet I will need RUM for the raft up. I never drink underway but I will drink when the hook is in the mud

deleted_user 09/17/2008

Do you have any traditions or superstitions you do before you leave shore?

deleted_user 09/17/2008

I say wait till the weekend or something,

HeaveToo 09/17/2008

Okay....got another drink. Ever notice that the later it gets the heavier you mix the rum? I think that I am up to 60% rum and 40% coke

HeaveToo 09/17/2008

Nah. The longer I go to sea the more superstitious I get. I have a flag that I refuse to fly anymore because I continue to fly it then it will be the death of me.....long story...but I don't have stuff that I do before I cut line. The only time I would do something like a ceremony is the beginning of the season or re-naming a boat.

HeaveToo 09/17/2008

http://s296.photobucket.com/albums/mm199/HeaveToo/?action=view&current=June08092-1.jpg

THere is a shot with the flag that I won't fly anymore in it.

deleted_user 09/17/2008

I vote for no drinking. It does not heal the pain, it only masks it!

james021011976 09/17/2008

I always drink too much then feel like shit the next day.

HeaveToo 09/17/2008

What pain. I feel great. The worst of it is over. I am just waiting for the courts to catch up with how I feel...Divorced! I am not drinking because I am depressed. To tell you the truth, I don't know why I am drinking...I just am! ha ha ha.

Life is good. I have big plans for the weekend and I will have a good time with nothing to hold me back!

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